The title “Domme” doesn’t sit super easy with me. It is not a role I actively pursue but it is something I have fallen into quite naturally. Female domination is quite the buzz genre at the moment, and I hope that I bring something different to the world of clip making around this style. Here are the top 5 reasons why I enjoy making Femdom clips.
natural dominance
I have a very ostentatious personality and was born dominant. I am physically very strong; I trained horses as a child and adolescent and even started training as a farrier when I was 12. (For those of you who know horses, that is a big deal. The strength required to hold up the hoof of an animal that weighs half a tonne, and the forearm strength required to clip their hooves still blows my mind thinking about it today). I am of German descent, and my family are just naturally straightforward and do what they want, when they want. Therefore, making femdom clips is a very natural thing for me and I actually struggle playing roles where I have to submit. It just is not in my nature. That being said, I have been exploring submission, and in particular shibari practices as a rope bunny. If this perks your interest, check out my photoset on ManyVids called “BJ Shibari Queen.” For only $19.99, you will feel like you are there…
spectrum of dominance
Domination is not the same in every situation. In particular, there is a spectrum that it moves along, not only between different practitioners or session but also within. As with other genres that interest me, domination has a flow or an intensity that requires a unique control to ensure the fantasy remains intact and develops in line with the expectations of those involved. I love making clips where the domination is subtle; for example, my set of “Stepmom” clips within my Ego Destroyer Inc series is more a subtle headfuck in the context of a stepson trying to live with his new super hot stepmom. But I also love making clips where the domination is of sledge hammer to the head intensity where you know what is going on and what your role is immediately. The main clip I am thinking of here is “The Spittoon”. Check it out on ManyVids for only $9.99.
dominance and intelligence
I find intelligent people extremely attractive. A person who can get inside my head is one smart cookie. I pride myself on being able to do that also, in an ethical and responsible manner. I think being able to dominate someone on an intellectual level is a special skill that deserves absolute props. So in making Femdom clips that use intelligence, I feel so accomplished and this contributes to my love of them. I think the way I do this best is through my clips that focus on ASMR. I have done a couple like this and now that I have upgraded my recording system, I will be doing more. One clip that you can view FOR FREE that harnesses this amazing power is “Erotica Mindfuck.” In it, I read a short story by Anais Nin, set to a safe for work clip. Get it on ManyVids right here.
flipping the standard narrative
Femdom is about flipping the standard narrative that we have in porn; that women are submissive with things done to them, as opposed to driving the narrative and actively engaging the audience. I love the way that I can show women being sexy and feminine whilst also bringing my nutcracking, Ego Destroying personality to the fore. Amongst my current clips, I think the one I do the best with this is “The Slap.” It is another sexy Ego Destroyer Inc clip, but I am showing you how you need to slap yourself. Get it on ManyVids for $9.99.
the creatively dominant
When you think of female domination, you typically think of leather clad, stiletto wearing, whip cracking badass in all black. To be honest, that representation does not appeal to me much at all. I like doing things a bit differently, and be very creative in the way that I portray dominance. There is some argument that Dommes cannot be naked as that is giving power to their submissives. In fact, I think it is the opposite. My naked body, untouchable and unattainable is the ultimate demonstration of dominance. I can be standing in front of you, masturbating, and there is not a thing you can do about it except ache and drool. Want to see what I mean? Then check out my clip “The Stepmom Returns.” For $4.99 on ManyVids, I will demonstrate the domination and control that nude sensuality brings.
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