Why I Love Making Fetish Content

Allow me to bring your fantasy to life…

I didn’t purposely decide to get into making fetish content. It was just a extension of my natural tendencies and preferences. It is something I enjoyed from the outset, even more so once people started asking me to push the boundaries of what I had already explored. Here are five reasons why I enjoy making fetish content.

 

Helping people explore their fantasies in a safe and non-judgemental way

Once you say you are fetish friendly, you attract people who either have explored their fetishes or are still in the process of working out what they like. I have worked with people in my vanilla life for many years as a trauma counsellor so I have a really good understanding of how to make people comfortable enough to engage in something that may be very confronting. I enjoy creating safe and respectful spaces for people to explore and experience their fantasies.

Learning about human sexuality

Having worked with people in an interpersonal way in my vanilla life, I have seen and heard a lot of things about human behaviour. I am naturally curious, and making fetish content means I am constantly learning about what makes people tick. When I come upon a fetish I am not familiar with, I immerse myself in it so that I can gain an understanding of what someone is looking for on a deeper level. Is it about control? Humiliation? Submission? What is the feeling this person wants to experience?

The creative challenge

Once I work out what the person wants to feel, then the creative challenge begins. How do I create that feeling within the specifications give to the particular fetish? How to make someone feel they are being spat on when viewing a piece of content is a challenge. I also self shoot everything, so I need to be able to make it happen with a one-woman show. Some of this takes place in post-production when editing content, but some things need to be captured in one shot to ensure the feeling created doesn’t get disrupted. As a creative person, I love this kind of challenge, resulting in each project being a discrete piece of work.

Exploring my sexual preferences

By helping other people explore their fetishes, it gives me the opportunity to explore mine. I truly believe that until you try something, you will never really know what you like. I really enjoy taboo role play which I didn’t realise until I made custom content around taboo themes. I knew I enjoyed tease and denial but making fetish content connected me with what it was I liked about it and to what extent I was willing to push it. The other fetish I really enjoy is ASMR, and until l had worked out the name for it and what it meant, I wasn’t able to explore it further.

Diversity in projects

In making fetish content, I never know what I am going to be asked to do. It could be video clips or it could be photos. It could be a long complicated piece or something short and sharp. The script for each is also different and it is a surprise to see what elements people want incorporated into their requests. Negotiating what I will do is part of the excitement.

What fetish would you like to explore? Pegging? Femdom? Feet? Ass worship? Tease and denial? Religious fetish? Don’t be shy. Come and say hi and let’s make something amazing.

Demystifying Premium Snapchat

I don’t run a Snapchat account anymore, but let me tell you what I know…

Premium Snapchat has become very popular recently and I used to have absolutely no idea what people were talking about when they referred to “pocket porn.” An internet search gave me a little more knowledge but here are the main bite sized pieces for anyone looking to subscribe to one…

What is Premium Snapchat?

Premium Snapchat is the term used to describe the Snapchat accounts of adult models sharing NSFW (not safe for work) content (pics, clips, chats). A fee is generally charged to gain access. Once you pay the model the fee, they will typically send you the code for their Premium account and grant you access.

How much will it cost me?

All models price their Snapchat access differently. Some are ridiculously low, and some are ridiculously high. Some sell it month to month, whilst others will give “lifetime” access for a set fee. Premium Snapchat is also used as an extra tidbit for selling other content, eg buy a clip and get Premium Snapchat access for free. I have seen Premium Snapchat priced as low as $30 for lifetime access including screenshots and as high as $50 per month with add ons such as screenshots and chat costing extra. But if you find a model you like and what that bit extra interaction that Premium Snapchat gives you, I argue that it is probably worth your money, whatever they are asking.

What can I expect to get?

Once again, it depends on the model, so it is good to check them out before signing up to see if it is what you are looking for. Some models are very active and are uploading snaps all day, every day. Some may have all NSFW content or some may have all kinds of things. Some may allow you to screenshot snaps and to chat with them as part of the service. Generally, Premium Snapchat includes pics and clips and promotional material. Some bigger Premium users also do takeovers, allowing other models to post to their account. I have also seen some group Snapchats advertised, where a group of models share the one account so you will get a bunch of different people on the one subscription.

Do I need a special app/account?

Nope. It is just your normal Snapchat account and adding the model’s details once you have gone through the formalities means you will have access to endless pocket porn.

Sounds good. Sign me up!!!!

Hold your horses there, cowboy. Because selling access to a users Snapchat is actually against terms of service (and hence why clip sites are starting to remove Snapchat subscriptions from potential services models can use), most advertising I have seen is done privately through models social media accounts, particularly Twitter. Have a favourite model? Then see if they offer it as a service (they will usually be pretty vocal about it if they do).

Any extra tips?

There is currently some underhanded tactics being used in the Premium Snapchat space, because it can be lucrative. This includes non-models stealing model’s Snapchat content and selling it as their own. Always verify that the person selling the content is the person who owns it. This can be done through verification; most models who aren’t connected with a clip site will have verification videos showing they are who they say they are. Pro tip: if a model is on a clip site they are verified because that is part of the sign up and authorisation process. Don’t ask a clip site model for verification; it is annoying and shows your ignorance.

Ask for the rules of the Premium Snapchat you subscribe to and abide by them. This is just common courtesy.

Pay me, I am pretty.

I hope this has helped bring you up to speed with Premium Snapchat (albeit a super basic once over). And for those who want to know… I was doing Premium Snapchat when I started in this biz, but after doing it 3 or so months, the costs outweighed any benefits I was receiving. Maybe someday I will revive it but till then, go find yourself another happy snapper.

5 Reasons Why You Should Pay For Porn

Hey there, starebear…. Pay for my videos, I will last longer.

Back in the day, accessing porn took time and effort. You had to know where to get it and you had to pay for it (or get it as a hand me down from someone who had done the work to get hold of it). I remember the nude magazines at my local newsagent, with models hidden behind black plastic covers. The softcore porn in a private corner at the video store. Borrowing copies of XXX videos from my friends who had got them via weird mail order companies.

Now, all you need to do is open up your internet browser, plug a term into your search engine and bingo. You have access to pretty much anything your heart desires. The fact is that the internet was built for porn and is an outstanding medium to access it quickly and easily.

I believe that we need to maintain the values of the old days and continue to pay for porn. This may sound like a novel concept in a time when we crave immediacy, but maintaining the old values whilst embracing the new platforms we have at our disposal is really important. Here are five reasons why…

1. Porn is a product, like any other

Those photos, that gif, that clip that you viewed on the internet, is so accessible that we forget that this is someones work that they have put time, effort and resources into making for your entertainment. We are used to paying to listen to music, watch movies or tv shows, read books, so why are we not doing the same for our sexy content? Some say this is because there is so much freely available, we don’t put any value on it. The reality is that the stuff that is freely available is stolen from the very creators who put it together in the first place. Therefore, I argue that all it takes is a shift in mindset, from stealing content for your entertainment, to paying something for it. The ethical porn movement is a very real thing, and something I subscribe to wholeheartedly.

2.Porn is ridiculously cheap to buy

I am online most of the day working on promoting my own content and those of others. Porn is ridiculously, stupidly cheap to purchase. I know because I see the products people are selling everyday. Full length clips for $5, Premium Snapchat subscriptions (or “pocket porn”) for less than you are paying for Netflix per month, photosets containing hundreds of photos for the price of seeing a movie, live sessions with models for only a few dollars per minute. There is literally no excuse not to pay someone for something.

3. Paying for porn means you get what you want

What does your heart desire? Do you like MILFs? Taboo role play? Anal? Outdoor play? Couples? Group sex? Believe me, you can get your exact fantasy by paying performers for it. In my opinion, this is one of the best things about being able to access porn on the internet. You no longer have to stick with the rigid sexual fantasies of a chosen few, but you have a world of things to choose from. Explore, fantasize and design your own sexual adventures.

4. Porn is a legitimate job, and the only one available for some

Making porn takes time, money and resources. It looks like fun and games but there is a whole lot of stuff going on behind the scenes that you have no idea about. For some, creating porn is one of the few ways they have to make an income due to family/care commitments, health issues, disability, criminal records and lack of suitable employment where they live. Help keep someone fed and housed by paying for that little clip you enjoyed.

5. Help the porn industry grow

Paying for porn does something really important which may sound counter-intuitive, but makes economic sense. The more porn you pay for, the more porn there is available. It means performers can dedicate more time to content creation, making more amazing vids, photos and gifs for you to enjoy. It means the industry becomes diversified; if people are interested in a particular type of content and are willing to pay for it, it will become more available. It means we can keep people in the industry for a longer period of time which translates to more sexy content for the fans.

Pay me, I am pretty.

These five points are only the beginning… there are way more arguments for why it is important to pay for your porn, that I will explore in another post. But for now, I hoped I have convinced you enough that you are now willing to send a little tribute my way