I know people get a little confused about the obsession some of us have with MILFs (Mums I’d Like To Fuck). Why is it such a big deal? Why do people have continual fantasies about fucking a mother? Well, as someone who has made a lot of content in that category, here are the three reasons why I think some people just can’t get enough of MILFs.
Older women age like fine wine
Although we have a society that prizes youthfulness above all else, that doesn’t mean that reality is the same. Because, at this particular point in time, the Gen X women are hitting their 40s and in their absolute prime.
Gen X women themselves are a force to be reckoned with, particularly Australian women. This is because there is something about growing up through that period in Australia that made a generation of absolute badass babes.
This sounds like a blog post in and of itself. Because, seriously, women born between 1975 and 1985 are something else, and I could talk for days about them.
In short, women as they age, in general, become more confident and at ease with themselves and that just radiates. This is part of what makes them even more beautiful.
Mums take shit from noone
Mothers have created human beings, either by carrying them inside their bodies and building them one piece at a time, or being that integral human who guides children from being completely helpless into full grown beings.
This is why mother’s will take no shit from anyone under no circumstances. This is because they have literally brought humans into this world and if you don’t think that is powerful, there is clearly something wrong with you.
And anyone who has to care for a newborn baby who will make you doubt your sanity during sleep deprivation, or deal with a toddler whose life you ruined because you gave them the wrong cup to drink out of, has been to hell and back. And this all equates to taking no nonsense from any motherfucker.
Strength, power and caring. Hot, am I right?
All those years of experience
Mums are a little older and that means they have been around the block a few times. This also means they have years of experience being an adult and that they have seen a thing or two.
Not only can Mums help you learn things like sorting your laundry or making a budget, but they can show you how to do other things, while doing things to you that you didn’t even think were possible.
What about a PAWG MILF?
Well, what about them?
Round, juicy and super soft for kissing, cuddling and all that other good stuff!
Don’t believe me? Well, check out the following best selling clips to see what I mean…
MILF Lapdance
Mommy Rewards With JOI
MILF in Glasses Squirts
Morning Fuck
Follow Mommy To Bed
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My family have always been self-employed business people, so my earliest memories are of them working and developing their various businesses. This entrepreneurial spirit was demonstrated to me very early on and as a result, I was always interested in running my own business. My first was actually selling really cool pens to my classmates in year 4, which was stopped by the principal once he was made aware of what I was doing.
Apparently, this was a no-no in primary school.
Later, I got into the music industry, starting performing in local bands when I was 15, moving onto roles in management of bands, venues and one-off events as I got older. I served on official boards and help develop large projects involving the industry.
Yes, I am being purposely vague. You can work out why.
Working in the music industry across multiple levels means I was able to view it from a variety of angles, and look at what makes certain artists, events and ideas successful or not.
To me, it appears that the music industry people and people in the independent adult content creation industry share similar challenges when it comes to growth. What you need to know and what is required to grow in the businesses of music can be applied to that of independent adult content creation.
Here are my thoughts.
Technical Mastery
When you start out, your technical mastery of your individual art form isn’t always the best. There is growth and development to be had before you can progress any further.
In the music industry, this stats at learning how to actually play your instrument, moving onto how to develop songs and eventually how to record them.
The same applies in the porn industry; you need to know how to perform a particular act for the camera, how operate your equipment and how to edit your content so that it is enjoyable for your audience.
All of these technical skills are being continually worked on, levelling up as you gain further experience and tools to use.
The Conduit to Your Audience
In the previous section, I mentioned the audience. The audience is obviously crucial to both industries; these are your consumers and they must be kept at the forefront of your mind.
After your technical mastery has reached a passable level, then you will have begin to learn the mechanics of whatever medium your art uses to reach your audience. Once you have selected a site to begin sharing your content on, you. you need to know how the site works. Essentially, the site is your storefront, and once you have learnt how to navigate that, then you need to work out how to grow, which means how to reach your target audience..
This is exactly the same for people in the music industry as it is for those in the adult industry. Though the sites may be different (or in some cases, the same!), they all operate the same sort of way. Each has a “creator portal”, “terms of services”and types of content format that can be uploaded.
The People You Need to Know
Once you have got to the stage where you have mastered the platform you are hosting your content on, you will become aware that there is something that is preventing you from making the next leap in your career.
This used to really puzzle me, as I couldn’t see what was required and what I needed to do. This is because this is where you get to the point where you can’t see the machinations of the industry unless you are right inside it. And that takes a special kind of action because you need to find the people in the industry who are important to know. I know that there are people in both industries which you need to connect with to get to that next level.
In the music industry, this includes venue owners, booking agents, sound engineers, industry bodies and other bands within your genre.
The adult industry is exactly the same, but the people you need to connect with are slightly different; site owners, heads of departments, photographers/videographers, industry specifc media and other models within your niche.
Level Up – Develop Status
I just mentioned industry specific media, and both industries have their own types of media that you need to connect into. This is because the next level involves developing status and media is the primary way to develop this and industry respect.
I just mentioned industry specific media, and both industries have their own types of media that you need to connect into. This is because the next level involves developing status and media is the primary way to develop this and industry respect.
This means being seen as an expert in your particular genre and respected as someone with industry experience and credibility. Status comes from being heard, talked about and visible. So interviews, product partnerships, blogs, guest appearances on podcasts are just a handful of the ways this is done, with solid support from social media.
Obviously both of these industries have the same ways of developing status, although the content differs significantly.
Don’t ever discount the advice of business people, just because they work in a different industry to yours. Because, as you can see, we can probably learn so much more from each other .
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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I have been on ManyVids since 2018… it wasn’t the first site you could find my content on, but it was a very close second. Over the years, the site has changed it’s features and functionality, and sometimes it can be overwhelming to know where to actually start to get your profile growing, connect with customers and bag your sales.
I thought it might be useful for models using ManyVids to hear my top 5 tips for getting the most out of the site. At the current time, with the functions available to us, these are the things I believe you MUST do to grow on ManyVids. (these things can and probably will change, but for now, this is where we are at).
Hey, if you are not a model, this may not be very interesting to you… or maybe it will be! If you are a customer, it might help you navigate the site better too (otherwise known as win-win).
Complete EVERYTHING in About Me Section
In your ManyVids profile you will have an About Me section which has a two-fold job; 1) it tells visitors to your profile who you are and why you are so amazing, and 2) filling it out adds points to your MV score which contributes to your rating across the site. The rating is important because it helps you get seen on the site. For example, if someone searches for PAWG and then filters by “Highest MV Score”… BAM! There is your girl Rem Sequence.
See? There I am in the second row, at number 12! Under my beautiful friend, Greeneyedfreakymom… totally not complaining!
And people do this when they get on a site… they will plug in what they are looking for and getting yourself as close to the top as possible is absolutely key for you to become their new favourite person.
Think of it this way… the more info you provide about yourself that speaks in a language that the customer/site understands, the more visible you will be.
The first section looks a little something like this:
As you can see, it has my joining date, my score, my social links, a blurb and my top video tags. The social tags are inputted in the next section so we will leave it for now. The video tags are automatically assigned depending on what you tag your videos. As you can see, my top vids are PAWG, MILF, Big Butts, Big Ass and SFW (I have a lot of non-nude content on my page… don’t judge me!)
People get a bit overwhelmed with the About Me section and I totally understand this. My advice, which may not help with this anxiety, is to use the character limit to the max! You want to write as much relevant, bait text in there as you can. You can always go back and edit this so don’t get too hung up on getting your first draft perfect, just get it done!
If you are not sure how to start, visit the pages of other models and see what they have written. Put yourself in the position of a customer who has never met you or seen you before. What are your best qualities, skills and how are you going to entertain them?
Remember all of this can be refined over time… mine has definitely had a number of revisions.
The second part of the About Me is an attributes block and looks a little something like this:
Fill in as much of this as you can. I cannot tell you how many profiles I visit that have nothing in this section. If you have nothing in here, it just says “check back later!” It is important because it tells people what you are about and gives them the option of “hearting” your hair colour, eye colour, breast size, measurements and body type. (For MV Boys and Trans, the options are different but the same rule applies… fill it all out!)
The “hearts” on your attributes contribute to your MV score so provide as many opportunities as you can for people to help boost your score. When I follow fellow models, I immediately go to this page and “heart” all the attributes I can because I know it is important.
Socialise on MV Social
MV Social was a big deal when it first came in. It was a huge change and like change in general, people didn’t like it. I was one of them.
But the main reason I didn’t like it was that I didn’t know how the hell to use it properly!
We get so used to doing things a certain way on certain sites that when it changes up, most of us are not flexible enough to embrace the change. Most of us come kicking and screaming.
The fact is that MV Social is just like… a social media platform. You can post, like, comment on and share other people’s content. I was doing it everyday on Twitter and Instagram but didn’t think clearly enough to transfer that mindset to ManyVids.
So, like you would do on other platforms, follow other models and like, comment and share their posts. If they share a post of yours, it is good manners to reciprocate! Reply to comments on your posts too. And like other platforms, it is definitely a faux pas to advertise YOUR content in the comments section of another models post. Just… don’t.
Have a Pinned Post
Like I said above, ManyVids is really starting to take off as a social community, so you will get people coming to your profile and wanting to like, share and comment on your posts. It is a “I scratch your back if you scratch mine” situation.
However…
Make sure there is something there for people to share! You can pin a post to the top of your MV Social page so that there is always something for someone to share if they want to support you. I share a lot of content from other models, but I always make sure I have an additional one or two posts of my own below my pinned post, so that if someone comes by, they can see what I am about and have more than one post to share.
Connect with other Models
Another thing you must do to grow on ManyVids is to connect with other models. Follow them, like their “About Me” section, like their clips, like and re-MV their posts and be a positive and supportive presence on the site.
There are also many reMV groups operated by models via Twitter that you can connect in with. These help to promote your content on ManyVids, therefore getting it out to a wider audience. These usually have quite specific rules about being a member, including liking and reMVing other models content, voting in contests and reviewing clips. Make sure you understand the rules of the group and always go to the admin of the group if you have any issues.
As I have said in previous posts, it is important to build positive relationships with other models and steer clear of drama. Think of other models as your work colleagues, working under the same employer. If you had an issue at your workplace, how would you handle it? We are often in a position of having to work with people who we don’t like or whose values don’t match our own, but it is important to stay civil and respectful.
Some would say drama between models can help increase exposure and sales, but in my experience, customers don’t like it. If you want to switch people off, or associate your name with a bad vibe, by all means, start drama. But in my experience, especially using ManyVids, customers are not huge fans of those models who are not nice to others in their community.
Enter the Weekly Competitions
This last one is definitely a bone of contention between models. ManyVids do weekly competitions as well as longer contests that can go as long as 10 days. These are opt in only, so you have to put a photo up and a contest quote to enter. You can offer rewards for paid votes (eg $5 = 1 free full length vid etc) which a lot of models do to increase their earnings and get a higher ranking in the comp.
I worked in the music industry for many years, and we certainly rail against gigs just for exposure in that sphere. Because that’s how unpaid opportunities are normally framed: “Yeah, we won’t pay you, but think of the EXPOSURE.” (*insert eye roll here).
But yes, I am gonna say it… one of the main things you can get out of being involved in a ManyVids contest is exposure, eg customers who didn’t know you exist get a chance to meet you. If you can get on the first or second page of the weekly contest, your chances of someone new seeing you go right up.
You can also access a “voter list”, so you can see everyone that voted for you. I make a point of contacting all the people who gave me free votes to thank them personally, and this has been a great tool to introduce yourself to new customers who may be interested in buying your content.
ManyVids does not offer a whole bunch of opportunities to get your face seen by people on the site, and as with all other sites, I advocate that you use what you can, while you can. As crappy as pure “exposure” is, the competitions are one of the ways to gain this. Because there are people out there who are your next big super fan, they just don’t know you exist yet.
I hope you enjoyed this piece and that it gave you some extra things to think about when it comes to how you use ManyVids. I haven’t covered EVERYTHING so if there is something you feel is also important, feel free to email me and let me know.
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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It is contest time again on ManyVids, and this time it is to celebrate the season of lovers! The Cupids Contest runs now till February 14th, and I am curious… will you be my Valentine?
You can vote for free DAILY or pick up a paid vote reward. Why paid votes? Well they increase my chance of winning, plus you get yourself a special deal on my most popular items. Check them out below…
$ 5 = Video Cock Rating
Normally this item would cost you $10 from my store, but during this contest you get it for $5! You get to send me pictures of your cock, and I will send you an honest, SPH or cock worship rating (your choice) via a video message. Get it here.
$10 = 3 videos of Your Choice
I have over 330 videos in my ManyVids store, and with this paid vote reward, you get to choose any 3! That means you could save a whole lot of cash if there were some clips of mine you have been saving up for. Get it here.
$15 = 4 videos of Your Choice + Video Cock Rating
For a $15 vote, you get a two-fold treat. Select 4 videos from my ManyVids store AND get a video cock rating as described above. The savings are ridiculous. Clearly, I have lost all my commonsense. Get it here now before I come to my senses.
$25 = 15 minute Video Chat
Now we start to get into the super sweet deals. I love doing video chats, but I understand they are normally really pricey for people. But understand, you are getting me one on one! Normally this would cost you $80+ dollars, but during the contest, you get 15 minutes with me for only $25. A steal! Get it here now.
$30 = 30 minute Sexting session
Would you prefer that I seduce you through text messages (including pictures/video/audio)? Well, if you are not ready for the pressure of a one to one encounter with me then this contest reward is for you! You will get 30 minutes of my undivided attention for only $30, on the app of your choosing. Get it here now!
$50 = 12 Months of AVN Stars Access
My $50 contest reward is for those of you who want to draw out the pleasure of my company over the next year. You will get 12 months access to my AVN Stars content, including 20+ members only full length videos. There is a nice saving here to be made, so get it here now!
$150 = 1 Week Girl Friend Experience
You read that correctly, for one week you will get to enjoy a Girl Friend Experience with me, your new Aussie playmate. What does a GFE entail? Daily messages, including photos and videos, plus one phone sex session. That is an ABSURD price for 7 days of my company. Grab it here now!
$350 = ALL MY VIDS
As I said before, I have over 300 clips on ManyVids, and with this reward, you get them ALL. This includes Members Only Clips which are not available outside of my memberships. I don’t even want to try and calculate the savings. Let’s just say they are ridiculous! So if you want my entire video collection, this is the one you need to get. Pick it up here.
I hope to see you all voting every day for free, and I hope you reward yourself with one of my paid vote treats!
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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Once I hit the fourth clip in my inflatable category of clips, I had started to hit a bit of a roll. My first fan who started me on this inflatable journey made a very special request…
Would I make a clip, just for him, but release it to the public?
I always tell my fans that my DMs are always open. Why? For this specific reason: for questions and requests. Requests are a great way to get ideas for new clips and also to learn more about that particular fetish. By reading the way I person writes their request, I can tell what is a focal point for them and what it is that I need to nail in order for the clip to be a success.
Naughty Billy Loses A Toy
So in this clip, “Billy” has left his inflatable beachball out when I specifically told him that he needed to put it away.
He has been warned.
If he doesn’t put his toys away, he will lose them and never get them back again.
In the case of this clip, yes, he got them back but it wasn’t in precisely the same condition he left it.
After bouncing on the toy for a while, and calling out to “Billy” to come and get his toy, I realise that he will not return and I will have to take matters into my own hands. Literally.
I bounce a bit more. And dig my fingers in…
Pop Goes The Ball!
Eventually the vinyl of the beachball can take it no longer so it must continue along the path of least resistance. In this case, that means opening up a big hole in it and letting all the air out.
Fast pop: in contrast to slow pop. Bigger holes deflate quicker, resulting in a fast resolution of anticipation. Bigger holes are inflicted by bigger objects – fingers, high heels for example.
“Billy’s Toy Gets Busted” was most definitely a fast pop clip and one with a sadistic twist to it. Some people like to see destruction or humiliation of the toy itself, whereas others like to see it cherished and loved. This one was definitely on the sadistic side. This ball would not be repaired.
What Comes Next?
As I said, this toy would not be repaired. It ended up in the place that most preloved vinyl toys with holes in them go; the garbage.
I heard a shriek of horror… yes it is true, at this point in time, I was not aware that my vinyl toys could be repaired and that there was a market for preloved toys, or more specifically, ones popped by my big ass on video.
You see, this was before I met my Aussie Patron, who has educated me further on the world of vinyl and inflatable fetish.
I will introduce you to them, next time.
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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It may surprise you to learn that I have multiple disabilities. I am the poster child for invisible illnesses, nice to meet you. In this series of blog posts, I am going to talk about what it is like being an adult content creator (or what I like to call myself, professional hot girl) and managing diseases which are debilitating on a daily basis. I am going to talk through them and I promise there will be a great big dollop of humour because I love having a laugh at myself. And what do I hope to achieve with this? Well, if you are a fan, I hope it will give you an insight what it takes to keep this (*gestures to the meatsuit I inhabit) running and looking as amazing as it does. I hope it will also open your mind to the fact that a lot of us professional hot people are managing a whole bunch of things that are completely invisible to the outsider. And if you are a fellow professional hot person with a disability, I hope this will help you feel like you are not alone.
What is MS?
I grew up in the 80s when MS was a pretty big deal. I remember the donation jar for the MS Society being on the counter of my mum and dads shop, but having no idea what it was, only that MS was bad enough to have lots of these donation jars kicking around, raising funds for research and cures. But I got the sense that people with MS were relegated to wheelchairs and their lives were pretty shit all in all.
Fast forward 30+ years and I still didn’t have much of an idea of what MS was when I was diagnosed with it in March 2020. The story of my diagnosis is a whole other story that I will save for another time, ok? Let’s just keep this first blog post simple and with a shorter length than an undergraduate philosophy essay…
MS stands for multiple sclerosis and is an auto-immune disease. What that means is that my immune system that instead of attacking nasty things that enter my body, it will attack my body itself. Different auto-immune diseases attack different parts of the body.
I have two auto-immune diseases, one that attacks my bowel and MS, which attacks my central nervous system.
Think about your central nervous system being a network of cables that run through your body, connected to your brain and whose job is to send signals back and forth from all over your body.
To work well, the central nervous system needs to be healthy and protected, so it is wrapped in a special sheath, like an electrical power cord, which makes sure the signals are sent accurately.
Like a power cord, if the sheath that surrounds your central nervous system is damaged, there will be problems getting the signal to travel to and fro.
In MS, the immune system attacks the special sheath around the central nervous system, creating sores (lesions) which then heal to become scars – hence the name “Multiple Sclerosis” meaning “Many Scars.”
How Does MS Affect You?
MS effects everyone in different ways. As you can imagine, not everyone has the same damage to their central nervous system in the same places. It is also a very complicated system, so different parts of it do different jobs. People’s symptoms of MS can be quite vague until the disease progresses to a point where the symptoms are more visible and diagnosable.
For me, I have had chronic fatigue for YEARS. Like not just tired, or exhausted but FATIGUED, which is the kind of tiredness that isn’t fixed by sleep. Your body feels encased in concrete.
I have also had issues with being very sensitive to the heat, pins and needles and numbness in one part of my body, headaches and constant pain that has no one source.
It was only when I became very unwell, and my symptoms became much worse, that I was diagnosed. I developed optic neuritis, which is an inflammation of the nerve cells in the eye, which caused me to lose sight, become incredibly painful and sensitive to light.
It is a symptom that a lot of people with MS have, and it is usually the reason people get to be diagnosed with the disease.
My fatigue then worsened, along with my heat sensitivity, difficulty with balance, brain fog and issues with moving my eyes independently of my head.
So, How Do You Do The Work You Do?
The thing with adult entertainment, and I am going to burst many people’s bubbles right now, is that it is exactly that; entertainment. And entertainment is comprised of a hell of a lot of smoke and mirrors and tricks to get the audience drawn in and to believe something is amazing and effortless. Therein lie the “How.”
Sometimes you might see a photo of me standing up, but I am propped against something.
I might be in enormous pain but I shut it off for the duration of the photo or push through it during a live show.
Or then I may just be less active than usual because if the body decides it does not want to work, there is no convincing it that you need to make clips today.
The smoke and mirrors of adult entertainment, and the flexibility that running my own business affords me, means I can do the work I do.
I sleep a lot, and I am generally running on empty and everything hurts, but I keep doing what I can. And most people are none the wiser.
Now that the preliminaries out of the way and you have a general idea of what may be going on behind the scenes, I can share some funny, tragic and weird stories and how the heck I live (and be sexy) with MS. Is it a terminal illness? Is there a cure? Is this why you complain about being so hot all the damn time? Stay tuned for my next post to know more…
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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It is that time of the year again, when the winners of the long list of categories in the annual Many Vids Awards are decided by those who are best in the know… our fans! I could fit into a number of the categories up to be fought over, but I have decided to focus in on the two that fit me better than any other! In this post I will explain what categories I am competing in and then I will tell you how to get your Queen Rem Sequence onto the winners podium! The contest runs from the 7th Jan to the 17th Jan so get onto it now.
MV MILF of the Year
This one is a no brainer. With a veritable truck load of clips focussing on MILF, step moms and mature model content, it makes total sense that I would be a strong competitor in this field. The amount of times I get asked by people if I would be disgusted if my child’s friends were creeping on me is astonishing. I am super happy to be that bad mummy that YOUR mummy warned you about. Vote for me for MV MILF of the Year here.
MV Booty of the Year
Once again, another category made for me is the MV Booty of the Year. I mean seriously, how could my 48 inch ass not have a fighting chance of getting into the top 10. This juicy booty is revered wherever it goes and has been touted by my fans as “the best booty on the planet.” A look at my content tells you this also. If you check out my list of Top 10 Clips on MV in 2020, it is basically a laundry list of ass content. So, do the right thing and give this ass a crown. Vote for me here.
How do I vote in the ManyVids Awards?
It is relatively easy to get your vote in for me in the MV Awards. First and foremost you need a ManyVids account, and you can sign up for one for free here on the sites main page. Once you have signed up as a member and made your account active, you can vote! By clicking on the links I have put in this post, you will be taken directly to my tile in order to vote. Alternatively, you can visit my profile on ManyVids, and there will be an option on the left side of the page under my portrait pic (on PC) where you will be taken to my voting tile. You can vote for free daily OR you can spoil me with a paid vote which will mean more votes, which naturally means the higher I will climb up the leaderboard. Paid votes start at $5 and go up to $1000, and most models have a paid vote reward system where you will receive a nice treat for the extra votes. My paid vote rewards are pinned at the top of my social feed of my Many Vids profile, or they are in the graphic here on this post. Some pretty awesome deals for voting!
Thank you so much to my fans on Many Vids for supporting me over the last year. This time last year I had just left hospital after a couple of weeks in a bed and almost dying, and was home recuperating. I finished in the Top 200 of the Booty of the Year Category in 2020 and the Top 100 of the MILF of the Year Category of the same year. We can do better than that in 2021, can’t we?
Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
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The adult content creation industry is filled with acronyms. It helps us shorten down lengthy names that we have to repeat over and over again, and it also helps talk about things in discrete ways with a certain amount of privacy. I have previously written a list of acronyms but I thought it was time to do an update of the acronyms I am asked about most frequently, this time including a bit of a description as well to help you on your way. The times they are a-changing, and that means what we use to describe ourselves and what we do must also change too.
SW – Sex Worker
This one has always been a bit funny for me, having worked in human services for coming up two decades. The acronym SW in that field stands for “social worker” and is used quite a lot (especially in casenotes, reports etc). So when I started to see it written in relation to strippers, full service providers, camgirls, pornstars and phone sex operators, I would have these moments of confusion. What the hell are these people talking about? Let’s just say context is everything.
CBT – Cock and Balls Torture
Another one which gave me some awkward times as I began negotiating the world of BDSM and providing therapy. CBT in a therapeutic setting stands for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and is a therapy that helps people change problematic behaviours. In BDSM, it is about treating the family jewels in an extremely aggressive way, all the while with consent. It could be thought of as a behaviour modification program too I guess.
JOI/JOE – Jerk Off Instruction/Encouragement
This is one of my top requested video types. Basically, it is an interactive experience where I talk you through exactly how I want you to touch yourself. Some people would argue that JOI must have a cum countdown (so you get told exactly when you can come) but JOE doesn’t have to. I disagree, as I think you can jerk off without cumming, although if you do want to have a happy ending to your video, you should probably make sure the star is going to finish on that note. One of my top selling JOI clips is “Oily Ass JOI”, which does not include a countdown, but is very satisfying, regardless, in the opinion of those who have purchased.
CEI – Cum Eating Instructions
I didn’t think eating one’s own cum was such a big deal… until I included it in a clip and everyone who saw it went BANANAS! It is a perfect addition to a JOI clip that culminates in a cum countdown. In a nutshell, the performer instructs you on how and when to eat your cum. I like to provide graphic descriptions of how the cum should look and where it should land before it is eaten. For a taste (see what I did there?) of the Rem Sequence approach to CEI, check out my clip “Kinky PAWG JOI”. It is a long one but well worth the 20 minutes it will take to watch it!
PH – PornHub
Onto the clipsites! A lot of models will abbreviate clipsite names because a) it is easier when we are talking about them all the time (that is the main purpose of an acronym!) and b) because saying the whole word can get us in trouble on non-adult friendly platforms (looking right at you Instagram). PornHub have run into a little bit of trouble of late, with Mastercard and Visa pulling out of allowing them to use them as a payment method (banks and the war on porn is worthy of a whole post in itself). So Visa are currently on a hold with PornHub while Mastercard have called quits for good. This means that PornHub is attempting to do a cleanup, not allowing unverified content on the platform and reviewing clips before allowing them to go live, in the hope that Visa will reconsider their withdrawal. Anyway, I still have a tonne of content on there that you can watch for FREE (126 vids and counting) so it is well worth going over and subscribing to my channel. Check it out here.
MV – ManyVids
ManyVids is my go-to adult site right now and I am growing it as much as possible. ManyVids works for me because they have all the features my fans love. You can buy clips, photosets, other store items (like my used panties!), join model fan clubs, buy a membership (accessing a tonne of clips for a special price) AND they have a live cam function as well as a social media feed! I mean, what else could you ask for in a site? And all my new member followers get a special welcome message from yours truly. If you haven’t signed up yet, what are you waiting for? And if you haven’t checked out my profile yet, you will find it here.
AVN – Adult Video Network
AVN (the Adult Video Network) have expanded into the waiting market for subscription based adult content sites with AVN Stars. I have been building my site there and personally I really love the versatility of it. It is one of my top sites alongside ManyVids. It offers the same options as other subscription sites (content locked for subscribers only, Pay-To-View messaging, live shows for subscribers) as well as a clip store attached to your profile, a social feed and a groups option (which I am still thinking about how to use best… perhaps a Panty Fetishists group?). Check out my AVN Stars here (and if you follow me you will get a special gift in your inbox).
MILF – Mum I’d Like to Fuck
Most people are aware that MILF stands for Mum I’d Like To Fuck (thank you perhaps to Stifler’s mum in American Pie… but I digress) but lots of people are not sure why MILFs are such a big deal. It is one of the biggest search terms consistently on major adult content sites so obviously it is of sought after content. But why? Well, my fans tell me it is a number of things. It is the perceived experience of an older woman, and particularly a mother, as we are generally quite well aware of our bodies having carried humans inside of them! There is also the taboo nature of being sexually attracted to a mum who could potentially be your mum’s friend, or the mum of YOUR friend. It all combines together into some very exciting fantasies! I have a number of clips where I play the MILF role, either in a humiliating/degrading way or a gentle nurturing way. Here is one of my latest Mommy clips.
PAWG – Phat Ass White Girl
So when I was first labelled with the PAWG tag, I had no idea what the heck people were talking about. Now this is a source of contention for a lot of people, who feel the term “PAWG” upholds racially discriminative systems, and is the feitshization (is that even a word?) of racial stereotypes. The argument is that performers should describe themselves as “curvy” or “big ass” instead. Here is my take: as much as you try, you will NEVER make porn PC (politically correct for those who are here for the acronyms). There are bigger moves to remove BBC (big black cock, another porn acronym), interracial, ebony, oriental and even ahego as categories in adult entertainment. People have said “check in with black women to see what they think” (see this Twitter thread for more) and noone I have checked in with has had an issue. I get hatemail from plenty of white performers and SWERFS telling me to drop it. It remains a bone of contention for many people. Anyway, you can find a whole tonne of my content in the PAWG category on any of my clipsites. The most recent clip was “PAWG Pantyhose and Dildo Squirt” which you can find on ManyVids.
BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
Speaking of fetishization of bodies, we have BBW, or big beautiful women. I have absolutely no problem with this category in adult entertainment as I think it is about time that we have all body types represented in the industry and the term makes these performers easier to find. However, I do have a problem when I am placed in this category. Not because I don’t want to be associated with amazing performers who are kicking ass, but because I don’t qualify for this category and I will not take space that is dedicated to performers who do. As much respect as I have for my fans, I am not a BBW as some of you think. I am thick and curvy and packed in the back, but I am not a BBW.
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Rem Sequence is an Australian adult content creator, blogger, and internationally published alt model. She has a background in psychology, philosophy and political science and worked in health and sex education, youth work and trauma counselling for almost two decades. Now, she works full time in the adult industry, as well as indulging her passion for arts, writing and music in numerous side projects.
If you have read my first two blog posts on my inflatable life, you would know that I came into this fetish with little to no idea of what I was doing. My first clip was an absolute adventure into the unknown and I learnt a great deal, thanks also to my lovely supportive fans who want to see me succeed. In making my second clip, I had a bit of an “AHA” moment. The rush I got when I actually got the beachball to pop was a defining moment. Endorphins were racing and the possibilities began to open up before me. Not only could I do this, but I was starting to think I could possibly enjoy it too.
It was the middle of the night and as per usual, I was thinking about ideas for content creation. I was trying to work out what I could do for my next inflatable clip. When you first start out in a particular fetish, it is sometimes hard to get inspiration for what people want to see on film.
Then I remembered how much I enjoyed bouncing on that soft, cushion of a beach ball and wondered how it would feel if I rubbed myself hard up against it. I can totally orgasm from a dry hump, and the more I thought about it, the more I wanted to try it. And that is how “PAWG vs Beachball Makeup Session” came about.
I filmed absolutely on the spur of the moment, so no makeup done, ordinary MILF next door look, nothing fancy or glamourous, but you do get to see me grind against the beachball, going clothed to nude and then cumming hard from rubbing up against it.
Watching Hot Girls Rub Themselves on Beachballs
And funnily enough, people enjoy watching hot girls rub themselves on beachballs. Once this third clip came out, I started to get a bit more attention and my ideas of what to do with this awesome vinyl toys began to explode.
And my very first vinyl fan returned with an idea for a clip. But that is a story for next time. Long story short is, I am always open for people to approach me with clip ideas, because you never know what may come of it.
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I have never been a huge fan of spitting and to be honest, it wasn’t something I worked on before becoming an adult content creator! I know lots of my friends worked on their spitting, getting the aim and amount right but it was always something that made me feel a bit icky. I got into spit fetish after a custom request, and at the time I was quite sick with a respiratory infection so knew I would be able to bring up a tonne of gunk as my client requested. The funny thing was realising how much I enjoy spitting; it is such a dirty, filthy, taboo thing and to do it without anyone saying “stop it, that’s disgusting”, instead “do more!” was an incredibly freeing moment. So here are my top 5 spit fetish clips for you to experience.
Can I Spit On Your Cock?
When someone first asked me to spit on a dildo, I wasn’t sure how much I could produce. But, it appears that I am a natural at bringing up phlegm and spit and controlling it in a super sexy and sensual way. I love watching the way it hangs from my mouth, all thick and bubbly and it makes me hot to cover a cock in my spit, either by spitting directly on it or by giving a super slobbery blowjob. In this clip, I show you just what I will do to you. You may be ready to fuck me in my tight pussy, but the reality is that I first of all want to drool all over your cock, till it is wet from the tip to your balls and everywhere inbetween. I want my spit and phlegm to cover your lap and if I can make it drip onto your thighs, I will. Don’t worry, I will also have my big soft natural tits out and my dirty mouth doing more than just covering your cock with thick bubbly phlegm. I will talk you through the whole thing from beginning to end. Enjoy the sight of my beautiful double D boobs as they hang over you and I play with them, all while I drench you with my precious spit before letting you fuck me. Check it out on ManyVids here.
The Accidental Spit
Welcome back to Ego Destroyer Inc, where you may be getting the picture that I have no trouble coating my visitors with lots of thick, juicy phlegm. I am not altogether sure why you came to visit me… perhaps it was to be verbally humiliated and degraded? But then again, I know you like seeing me chew my favourite gum, Hubba Bubba, so you may have just dropped by to enjoy that sight. It is only when I accidentally spit on you whilst reminding you of your many and varied faults that the truth emerges. Having me spit on you, being covered in my copious amounts of spit is a source of great pleasure for you. Do not complain. Your task now is to remain steadily in place while I cover your face with my spit and gently point out your inadequacies and areas for improvement. Check it out on ManyVids here.
The Spittoon
Welcome to Ego Destroyer Inc, where I will find your ego, manhandle it for a bit before crushing it. Do you know what a spittoon is? They were very popular at a certain point in history until it was realised what a disgusting and filthy thing it was to have a pot full of spit in public places. However… this doesn’t mean I can’t create my own human spittoon. And you are candidate number one. What you need to do is open wide and allow all of my thick juicy phlegm, spit and drool drop into you mouth, keeping the space around me nice and clean and tidy. Don’t think this is going to be a warm, nurturing experience either. If you want to be my spittoon, you will have to suffer the humiliation of the verbal tirade I will wage against you. Now, open your mouth and let me stand over you and drain all this filthy gunk out of my mouth. Check it out on ManyVids here.
Spit On Your Cock
I have made myself up all pretty and I want to show you what I have been preparing just for you. I have saved up all the phlegm and gunk that sits in my lungs overnight, just so I can bring it up for you. I look pretty with my full face of makeup and big natural tits hanging over my favourite dildo, but things are going to get really nasty, really fast! Watch as I hock up all the phlegm and gunk I have saved up, adding in some extra drool and spit and deposit it sensually onto your cock. Long, thick, bubbly, stringy, tendrils of phlegm and spit and gunk, and you have the front row seat to see it dripping and slimey over and over and over again. I catch it under my dildo with a plate and repeatedly drip it over so you can see just how thick and nasty I can be. Strap yourself in because this is a long one! Check it out on ManyVids here.
You Want Me To Spit On Your Cock?
I heard that you like to get your cock all juicy, soaking wet and you have asked me to help you. Of course Rem Sequence is the one to provide this service! I love to spit and am an expert at producing a lot of phlegm and spit so that your big cock will be adequately covered in my filthy sticky juice. There is no need for your cock to touch my mouth yet, or any other part of my body, as I can produce the amount of fluid you need without having to gag or stick anything in my throat. In this clip, you will get over ten minutes of coughing, spitting and hocking up phlegm that I will proceed to drool all over you. It wouldn’t be a Rem Sequence clip with an ample amount of dirty talk and views from a variety of POV angles. Take the best seat in the house and let me show you what I have got for you. Check it out on ManyVids here.
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