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Why I Like Making Femdom Clips

The title “Domme” doesn’t sit super easy with me. It is not a role I actively pursue but it is something I have fallen into quite naturally. Female domination is quite the buzz genre at the moment, and I hope that I bring something different to the world of clip making around this style. Here are the top 5 reasons why I enjoy making Femdom clips.

natural dominance

I have a very ostentatious personality and was born dominant. I am physically very strong; I trained horses as a child and adolescent and even started training as a farrier when I was 12. (For those of you who know horses, that is a big deal. The strength required to hold up the hoof of an animal that weighs half a tonne, and the forearm strength required to clip their hooves still blows my mind thinking about it today). I am of German descent, and my family are just naturally straightforward and do what they want, when they want. Therefore, making femdom clips is a very natural thing for me and I actually struggle playing roles where I have to submit. It just is not in my nature. That being said, I have been exploring submission, and in particular shibari practices as a rope bunny. If this perks your interest, check out my photoset on ManyVids called “BJ Shibari Queen.” For only $19.99, you will feel like you are there…

spectrum of dominance

Domination is not the same in every situation. In particular, there is a spectrum that it moves along, not only between different practitioners or session but also within. As with other genres that interest me, domination has a flow or an intensity that requires a unique control to ensure the fantasy remains intact and develops in line with the expectations of those involved. I love making clips where the domination is subtle; for example, my set of “Stepmom” clips within my Ego Destroyer Inc series is more a subtle headfuck in the context of a stepson trying to live with his new super hot stepmom. But I also love making clips where the domination is of sledge hammer to the head intensity where you know what is going on and what your role is immediately. The main clip I am thinking of here is “The Spittoon”. Check it out on ManyVids for only $9.99.

dominance and intelligence

I find intelligent people extremely attractive. A person who can get inside my head is one smart cookie. I pride myself on being able to do that also, in an ethical and responsible manner. I think being able to dominate someone on an intellectual level is a special skill that deserves absolute props. So in making Femdom clips that use intelligence, I feel so accomplished and this contributes to my love of them. I think the way I do this best is through my clips that focus on ASMR. I have done a couple like this and now that I have upgraded my recording system, I will be doing more. One clip that you can view FOR FREE that harnesses this amazing power is “Erotica Mindfuck.” In it, I read a short story by Anais Nin, set to a safe for work clip. Get it on ManyVids right here.

flipping the standard narrative

Femdom is about flipping the standard narrative that we have in porn; that women are submissive with things done to them, as opposed to driving the narrative and actively engaging the audience. I love the way that I can show women being sexy and feminine whilst also bringing my nutcracking, Ego Destroying personality to the fore. Amongst my current clips, I think the one I do the best with this is “The Slap.” It is another sexy Ego Destroyer Inc clip, but I am showing you how you need to slap yourself. Get it on ManyVids for $9.99.

the creatively dominant

When you think of female domination, you typically think of leather clad, stiletto wearing, whip cracking badass in all black. To be honest, that representation does not appeal to me much at all. I like doing things a bit differently, and be very creative in the way that I portray dominance. There is some argument that Dommes cannot be naked as that is giving power to their submissives. In fact, I think it is the opposite. My naked body, untouchable and unattainable is the ultimate demonstration of dominance. I can be standing in front of you, masturbating, and there is not a thing you can do about it except ache and drool. Want to see what I mean? Then check out my clip “The Stepmom Returns.” For $4.99 on ManyVids, I will demonstrate the domination and control that nude sensuality brings.

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Ego Destroyer Inc

The idea for Ego Destroyer Inc was developed after a long history of naming, shaming and berating mediocre men on my Instagram account. The concept of destroying the egos of men who come into contact with me started off as a bit of a joke before taking on a life of its own. It inspired me to develop this whole series of clips, which traverse the boundaries between femdom, findom and taboo genres. Here is my current offering in the Ego Destroyer Inc series.

The Spittoon – $9.99

This is where it all began…. “The Spittoon” was the first clip in my Ego Destroyer Inc series and was inspired by an idea of one of my regular custom clip clients. It is time to kneel and open wide because all your filthy mouth is useful for is collecting my spit. Verbal humiliation throughout and cleverly shot so you can imagine yourself sitting at my feet.

The StepMom – $4.99

“The Stepmom” is a bit of a spin on the Ego Destroyer Inc concept. In these clips, I play your arrogant and humiliating stepmother who delights in reminding you of how useless and undesirable you are. In this first clip of the series, I remind you that I know you crave me… but you will never have me.

The Orgasm Denial – $4.99

I like to masturbate and orgasm… alot. In “The Orgasm Denial”, I will explain to you what you missed out on seeing and why you never will see it. For those who love their female domination with a healthy dose of humiliation.

the bj backfire – $9.99

Everyone loves a blowjob. Until they realise that my mouth contains teeth. In the “The BJ Backfire”, I remind you in a not so subtle way whilst I eat a delicious and scarily relevant piece of fruit.

The Asslicker – $9.99

In “The Asslicker” edition of Ego Destroyer Inc, all your useless mouth is capable of doing is cleaning my ass. Assume your rightful place and crawl into see me on the floor. It is time for you to submit to a new level of upskirting and verbal humiliation.

The Stepmom Returns – $4.99

Your stepmother is back, and once again uses her arrogant and humiliating ways to put you in your place. In “The Stepmom Returns”, she stands over you while you try to get some sun and reminds you of the position you occupy in the household.

The Challenge – $4.99

“The Challenge” is a slightly different offering in the Ego Destroyer Inc series. It is more voice/ASMR orientated. In it, you find that your boss has left you 3 length voice messages. What could she want? You listen and find that she has set you a highly unusual challenge. Will you accept?

The Panty Bust – $9.99

“The Panty Bust” is another clip featuring your stepmom. She has asked you to come into her room as she is having a bit of a problem… her underwear has been going missing and she wants your help to work out what could be happening with it. Her true motives soon become clear and once again you are in the firing line.

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Why I Love Making Fetish Content

I didn’t purposely decide to get into making fetish content. It was just a extension of my natural tendencies and preferences. It is something I enjoyed from the outset, even more so once people started asking me to push the boundaries of what I had already explored. Here are five reasons why I enjoy making fetish content.

Helping people explore their fantasies in a safe and non-judgemental way

Once you say you are fetish friendly, you attract people who either have explored their fetishes or are still in the process of working out what they like. I have worked with people in my vanilla life for many years as a trauma counsellor so I have a really good understanding of how to make people comfortable enough to engage in something that may be very confronting. I enjoy creating safe and respectful spaces for people to explore and experience their fantasies.

Learning about human sexuality

Having worked with people in an interpersonal way in my vanilla life, I have seen and heard a lot of things about human behaviour. I am naturally curious, and making fetish content means I am constantly learning about what makes people tick. When I come upon a fetish I am not familiar with, I immerse myself in it so that I can gain an understanding of what someone is looking for on a deeper level. Is it about control? Humiliation? Submission? What is the feeling this person wants to experience?

The creative challenge

Once I work out what the person wants to feel, then the creative challenge begins. How do I create that feeling within the specifications give to the particular fetish? How to make someone feel they are being spat on when viewing a piece of content is a challenge. I also self shoot everything, so I need to be able to make it happen with a one-woman show. Some of this takes place in post-production when editing content, but some things need to be captured in one shot to ensure the feeling created doesn’t get disrupted. As a creative person, I love this kind of challenge, resulting in each project being a discrete piece of work.

Exploring my sexual preferences

By helping other people explore their fetishes, it gives me the opportunity to explore mine. I truly believe that until you try something, you will never really know what you like. I really enjoy taboo role play which I didn’t realise until I made custom content around taboo themes. I knew I enjoyed tease and denial but making fetish content connected me with what it was I liked about it and to what extent I was willing to push it. The other fetish I really enjoy is ASMR, and until l had worked out the name for it and what it meant, I wasn’t able to explore it further.

Diversity in projects

In making fetish content, I never know what I am going to be asked to do. It could be video clips or it could be photos. It could be a long complicated piece or something short and sharp. The script for each is also different and it is a surprise to see what elements people want incorporated into their requests. Negotiating what I will do is part of the excitement.

What fetish would you like to explore? Pegging? Femdom? Feet? Ass worship? Tease and denial? Religious fetish? Don’t be shy. Come and say hi and let’s make something amazing.