My Favourite Fetishes

What raises the hair on your neck? What covers you in goosebumps? Tell me your fantasies…

Like I have said in a previous blog post, I love making fetish content. It has helped me explore my own preferences and fetishes as well as helping others do the same. I found out things that I now enjoy that I had never had an interest in before, simply because someone asked me about it. Here are my current favourite fetishes…

Ass worship

Obviously my ass is amazing, but I had no idea about ass worship until I started making fetish content. Ass worship is an umbrella term for a number of different kinks associated with asses and bums. From ass cheek spanking, squeezing and oiling, to asshole spreading, sniffing and licking, my posterior can do it all. I love having my ass played with, so the fact others can enjoy it too is win-win.

ASMR

ASMR (autonomous sensory meridian response) is something I have loved and experienced for many years but didn’t realise there was a name for it. It is that tingling sensation you get on the back of your head and neck that moves into your spine in response to certain stimuli. It can be extremely pleasurable for some people, although the stimuli may vary. Whispering in my ear causes the experience for me, whilst others get it with prolonged eye contact, blowing noises with the lips or very gentle physical stimuli. I love making ASMR videos and MP3s as I nail the particular stimuli people want, and I find it soothing too.

Role play

Role play isn’t something I had done alot of before making adult content. Yes, I am actually a little boring in real life. But once the seed of fantasy was sown, I was hooked. From the naughty boss who engages in unsavoury workplace practices, to the horny party guest who gets involved in peeping tom action to the complex role plays I develop for my Ego Destroyer Inc branding, I enjoy creating fantasy worlds for my fans and am always open to new ideas.

Upskirting

At heart, I am a complete flirt who is an expert at tease and denial. And what better tease than upskirting, whether that is in panties, or panty less or whatever surprises I have hiding up my skirt. I love using different skirts too, not just short ones. I can’t imagine anything hotter than standing over someone and showing them what is under my skirt.

Religious / Taboo

I have just started doing more religious/taboo content, I have found that I love pushing those boundaries of what is comfortable. I have developed a character called Sister Rem, who I use to explore religious themes. This draws on my knowledge of religion in order to create complex stories. I have made several taboo open and custom clips which focus on the role of “mummy” which someone could experience in a variety of ways.

What shall I try next?

What are your favourite fetishes? Is there something you would like to explore? I would love to help you do this… feel free to reach out.

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Why I Love Making Fetish Content

Allow me to bring your fantasy to life…

I didn’t purposely decide to get into making fetish content. It was just a extension of my natural tendencies and preferences. It is something I enjoyed from the outset, even more so once people started asking me to push the boundaries of what I had already explored. Here are five reasons why I enjoy making fetish content.

 

Helping people explore their fantasies in a safe and non-judgemental way

Once you say you are fetish friendly, you attract people who either have explored their fetishes or are still in the process of working out what they like. I have worked with people in my vanilla life for many years as a trauma counsellor so I have a really good understanding of how to make people comfortable enough to engage in something that may be very confronting. I enjoy creating safe and respectful spaces for people to explore and experience their fantasies.

Learning about human sexuality

Having worked with people in an interpersonal way in my vanilla life, I have seen and heard a lot of things about human behaviour. I am naturally curious, and making fetish content means I am constantly learning about what makes people tick. When I come upon a fetish I am not familiar with, I immerse myself in it so that I can gain an understanding of what someone is looking for on a deeper level. Is it about control? Humiliation? Submission? What is the feeling this person wants to experience?

The creative challenge

Once I work out what the person wants to feel, then the creative challenge begins. How do I create that feeling within the specifications give to the particular fetish? How to make someone feel they are being spat on when viewing a piece of content is a challenge. I also self shoot everything, so I need to be able to make it happen with a one-woman show. Some of this takes place in post-production when editing content, but some things need to be captured in one shot to ensure the feeling created doesn’t get disrupted. As a creative person, I love this kind of challenge, resulting in each project being a discrete piece of work.

Exploring my sexual preferences

By helping other people explore their fetishes, it gives me the opportunity to explore mine. I truly believe that until you try something, you will never really know what you like. I really enjoy taboo role play which I didn’t realise until I made custom content around taboo themes. I knew I enjoyed tease and denial but making fetish content connected me with what it was I liked about it and to what extent I was willing to push it. The other fetish I really enjoy is ASMR, and until l had worked out the name for it and what it meant, I wasn’t able to explore it further.

Diversity in projects

In making fetish content, I never know what I am going to be asked to do. It could be video clips or it could be photos. It could be a long complicated piece or something short and sharp. The script for each is also different and it is a surprise to see what elements people want incorporated into their requests. Negotiating what I will do is part of the excitement.

What fetish would you like to explore? Pegging? Femdom? Feet? Ass worship? Tease and denial? Religious fetish? Don’t be shy. Come and say hi and let’s make something amazing.