Why I Love Making Fetish Content

I didn’t purposely decide to get into making fetish content. It was just a extension of my natural tendencies and preferences. It is something I enjoyed from the outset, even more so once people started asking me to push the boundaries of what I had already explored. Here are five reasons why I enjoy making fetish content.

 

Helping people explore their fantasies in a safe and non-judgemental way

Once you say you are fetish friendly, you attract people who either have explored their fetishes or are still in the process of working out what they like. I have worked with people in my vanilla life for many years as a trauma counsellor so I have a really good understanding of how to make people comfortable enough to engage in something that may be very confronting. I enjoy creating safe and respectful spaces for people to explore and experience their fantasies.

Learning about human sexuality

Having worked with people in an interpersonal way in my vanilla life, I have seen and heard a lot of things about human behaviour. I am naturally curious, and making fetish content means I am constantly learning about what makes people tick. When I come upon a fetish I am not familiar with, I immerse myself in it so that I can gain an understanding of what someone is looking for on a deeper level. Is it about control? Humiliation? Submission? What is the feeling this person wants to experience?

The creative challenge

Once I work out what the person wants to feel, then the creative challenge begins. How do I create that feeling within the specifications give to the particular fetish? How to make someone feel they are being spat on when viewing a piece of content is a challenge. I also self shoot everything, so I need to be able to make it happen with a one-woman show. Some of this takes place in post-production when editing content, but some things need to be captured in one shot to ensure the feeling created doesn’t get disrupted. As a creative person, I love this kind of challenge, resulting in each project being a discrete piece of work.

Exploring my sexual preferences

By helping other people explore their fetishes, it gives me the opportunity to explore mine. I truly believe that until you try something, you will never really know what you like. I really enjoy taboo role play which I didn’t realise until I made custom content around taboo themes. I knew I enjoyed tease and denial but making fetish content connected me with what it was I liked about it and to what extent I was willing to push it. The other fetish I really enjoy is ASMR, and until l had worked out the name for it and what it meant, I wasn’t able to explore it further.

Diversity in projects

In making fetish content, I never know what I am going to be asked to do. It could be video clips or it could be photos. It could be a long complicated piece or something short and sharp. The script for each is also different and it is a surprise to see what elements people want incorporated into their requests. Negotiating what I will do is part of the excitement.