ASMR

What Turns Rem Sequence On? Let Me Say More…

I previously wrote a post about my turn ons but let’s get real, human sexuality is so complex and rich that it cannot just be distilled down to one blog post! I always planned to write a follow up piece so you could understand a little bit more of what makes Rem Sequence tick when it comes to the bedroom. It is a question that is asked of me often and something that is always on my mind.

I talked before about how the things that get me going are forearms and hands, sensual daddy doms, men worshipping me, teasing and performing in front of a camera. But I am discovering more and more things that get my motor running. Some of these might seem a little foreign and strange but bear with me while I explain.

Tight Clothing and Binding

I have always been drawn to tight clothing, whether it be tights, shirts, or pants. I also love corsetry as I love that feeling of pressure on my body. I was dissuaded from wearing tight clothing when I was young as my family was very conservation and was (I felt) slightly embarassed by their curvy daughter when the rest of my female siblings were built like baby giraffes. Items of clothing that are tight and hug my figure look amazing and it turns me on to see my gorgeous curves. But there is something about the formfitting items that give me pleasure through other senses than my eyes. I find the restriction not only comforting but very pleasurable.

It was only very recently that I realised that ASMR is a real turn on of mine. ASMR is Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response, a tingling sensation that starts at the scalp and runs down the base of your neck and into your spine that is accompanied by a low grade euphoria. It is set off by different stimuli (sounds, touch etc) and I am learning what sets mine off. Whispering is definitely one of the triggers, but if that whispering is right in my ear (so the stimulus of your breath on the inside of my ear) it just shoots it up another notch. I also love gently ripping and tearing sounds, like fruit being torn up or broken into pieces. It makes me feel very hot and bothered in my panty region!

Biting

If you have read anything about me, you would know that I have a very active oral fixation… I enjoy putting things in my mouth and find the sensation of sucking very soothing. But I also like to bite onto things. Not chewing but the act of biting onto something (ball gag, skin) and holding it between my teeth. I also really enjoy being bitten. Totally animalistic but there you go! I do have one ball gag and only have one video featuring it which is only available for my paid members on my members sites. I should probably make another one again just to show you how hot biting makes me.

Vinyl

Another recent turn on that I have discovered is vinyl and in particular, inflatable toys like beachballs and other blow up pool floats. I have always got really excited by bouncy castles and bouncing on things, but it was only when I was approached by some avid vinyl lovers that I incorporated it into my clip making and then discovered I actually really enjoy it. Like I said I enjoy the bouncing sensation, but I also like the friction of the vinyl against my very sensitive bits. I was always scared that my big fat ass would bust the balls apart but they are surprisingly sturdy so there is nothing to worry about with that! I am looking forward to exploring this one more and seeing where it takes me.

Making Out and Passionate Kissing

As I said before, I have a very sensitive oral fixation, so it is no wonder that making out and passionate kissing really turns me on. I actually think that I could just cum from someone just kissing me, that is how hot it makes me. I would love to make clips with someone that is just kissing because it would combine two things which are major turn ons; performing on camera and passionate kissing. Submit your application to co-star with me by emailing remsequence@gmail.com

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Why I Like Making Femdom Clips

The title “Domme” doesn’t sit super easy with me. It is not a role I actively pursue but it is something I have fallen into quite naturally. Female domination is quite the buzz genre at the moment, and I hope that I bring something different to the world of clip making around this style. Here are the top 5 reasons why I enjoy making Femdom clips.

natural dominance

I have a very ostentatious personality and was born dominant. I am physically very strong; I trained horses as a child and adolescent and even started training as a farrier when I was 12. (For those of you who know horses, that is a big deal. The strength required to hold up the hoof of an animal that weighs half a tonne, and the forearm strength required to clip their hooves still blows my mind thinking about it today). I am of German descent, and my family are just naturally straightforward and do what they want, when they want. Therefore, making femdom clips is a very natural thing for me and I actually struggle playing roles where I have to submit. It just is not in my nature. That being said, I have been exploring submission, and in particular shibari practices as a rope bunny. If this perks your interest, check out my photoset on ManyVids called “BJ Shibari Queen.” For only $19.99, you will feel like you are there…

spectrum of dominance

Domination is not the same in every situation. In particular, there is a spectrum that it moves along, not only between different practitioners or session but also within. As with other genres that interest me, domination has a flow or an intensity that requires a unique control to ensure the fantasy remains intact and develops in line with the expectations of those involved. I love making clips where the domination is subtle; for example, my set of “Stepmom” clips within my Ego Destroyer Inc series is more a subtle headfuck in the context of a stepson trying to live with his new super hot stepmom. But I also love making clips where the domination is of sledge hammer to the head intensity where you know what is going on and what your role is immediately. The main clip I am thinking of here is “The Spittoon”. Check it out on ManyVids for only $9.99.

dominance and intelligence

I find intelligent people extremely attractive. A person who can get inside my head is one smart cookie. I pride myself on being able to do that also, in an ethical and responsible manner. I think being able to dominate someone on an intellectual level is a special skill that deserves absolute props. So in making Femdom clips that use intelligence, I feel so accomplished and this contributes to my love of them. I think the way I do this best is through my clips that focus on ASMR. I have done a couple like this and now that I have upgraded my recording system, I will be doing more. One clip that you can view FOR FREE that harnesses this amazing power is “Erotica Mindfuck.” In it, I read a short story by Anais Nin, set to a safe for work clip. Get it on ManyVids right here.

flipping the standard narrative

Femdom is about flipping the standard narrative that we have in porn; that women are submissive with things done to them, as opposed to driving the narrative and actively engaging the audience. I love the way that I can show women being sexy and feminine whilst also bringing my nutcracking, Ego Destroying personality to the fore. Amongst my current clips, I think the one I do the best with this is “The Slap.” It is another sexy Ego Destroyer Inc clip, but I am showing you how you need to slap yourself. Get it on ManyVids for $9.99.

the creatively dominant

When you think of female domination, you typically think of leather clad, stiletto wearing, whip cracking badass in all black. To be honest, that representation does not appeal to me much at all. I like doing things a bit differently, and be very creative in the way that I portray dominance. There is some argument that Dommes cannot be naked as that is giving power to their submissives. In fact, I think it is the opposite. My naked body, untouchable and unattainable is the ultimate demonstration of dominance. I can be standing in front of you, masturbating, and there is not a thing you can do about it except ache and drool. Want to see what I mean? Then check out my clip “The Stepmom Returns.” For $4.99 on ManyVids, I will demonstrate the domination and control that nude sensuality brings.

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Ego Destroyer Inc

The idea for Ego Destroyer Inc was developed after a long history of naming, shaming and berating mediocre men on my Instagram account. The concept of destroying the egos of men who come into contact with me started off as a bit of a joke before taking on a life of its own. It inspired me to develop this whole series of clips, which traverse the boundaries between femdom, findom and taboo genres. Here is my current offering in the Ego Destroyer Inc series.

The Spittoon – $9.99

This is where it all began…. “The Spittoon” was the first clip in my Ego Destroyer Inc series and was inspired by an idea of one of my regular custom clip clients. It is time to kneel and open wide because all your filthy mouth is useful for is collecting my spit. Verbal humiliation throughout and cleverly shot so you can imagine yourself sitting at my feet.

The StepMom – $4.99

“The Stepmom” is a bit of a spin on the Ego Destroyer Inc concept. In these clips, I play your arrogant and humiliating stepmother who delights in reminding you of how useless and undesirable you are. In this first clip of the series, I remind you that I know you crave me… but you will never have me.

The Orgasm Denial – $4.99

I like to masturbate and orgasm… alot. In “The Orgasm Denial”, I will explain to you what you missed out on seeing and why you never will see it. For those who love their female domination with a healthy dose of humiliation.

the bj backfire – $9.99

Everyone loves a blowjob. Until they realise that my mouth contains teeth. In the “The BJ Backfire”, I remind you in a not so subtle way whilst I eat a delicious and scarily relevant piece of fruit.

The Asslicker – $9.99

In “The Asslicker” edition of Ego Destroyer Inc, all your useless mouth is capable of doing is cleaning my ass. Assume your rightful place and crawl into see me on the floor. It is time for you to submit to a new level of upskirting and verbal humiliation.

The Stepmom Returns – $4.99

Your stepmother is back, and once again uses her arrogant and humiliating ways to put you in your place. In “The Stepmom Returns”, she stands over you while you try to get some sun and reminds you of the position you occupy in the household.

The Challenge – $4.99

“The Challenge” is a slightly different offering in the Ego Destroyer Inc series. It is more voice/ASMR orientated. In it, you find that your boss has left you 3 length voice messages. What could she want? You listen and find that she has set you a highly unusual challenge. Will you accept?

The Panty Bust – $9.99

“The Panty Bust” is another clip featuring your stepmom. She has asked you to come into her room as she is having a bit of a problem… her underwear has been going missing and she wants your help to work out what could be happening with it. Her true motives soon become clear and once again you are in the firing line.

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Acronyms… what does that mean?

Come over here… I have something to tell you…

Lots of people use acronyms nowadays. And I still get a bit lost and confused among the flood of random letters stuck together, that have some meaning that I generally miss. So to help you you out, here is a quick glossary of terms that are related to me and my work…

POV: Point of View

Point of View is generally used to describe videos which are created so that the viewer feels like they are in certain positions with the model in the vid. The most popular ones are from the angle of receiving oral sex, with the model riding on top and doggy style.

ASMR: Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response

ASMR is that spine tingling sensation that usually starts in your scalp and travels down your spine. It is usually a pleasurable experience that is triggered by different stimuli in different people. Whispering, gentle blowing with the lips and other quiet noises or physical touching can set it off. Mine is triggered by whispering into my ear. Videos that use ASMR stimuli will normally involve someone speaking to you in a very sensual and intimate way.

GFE: Girl Friend Experience

This is content or services that simulate what it is like to be in a relationship with the model. Can include vids, chat, pics. Always wanted to date an adult content creator? Well, you can.

TOS: Terms Of Service

Every clip site or app you use has Terms of Service. These are rules you have to abide by in order to use them. You are usually made to confirm them when you sign up to the site or app and the developers or admins will let you know if there are any updates while you are a user or member. These are important because if you break these rules, you may have your account deleted or restricted. Not fun.

NSFW: Not Safe For Work

Pretty self explanatory. If you look at this content in a civilian work environment you could get yourself in a lot of trouble with those around you.

SFW: Safe For Work

The opposite of NSFW.

JOI: Jerk Off Instruction

Fairly self explanatory I would hope, but these are clips that tell you what to do as opposed to you being a passive viewer to what is going on. I haven’t done much of this as yet, but it is something I want to do more of.

JOE: Jerk Off Encouragement

Sometimes JOI and JOE are used interchangeably, but in my opinion, JOE is more of a noticing that the viewer will be masturbating and encouraging them to do so. It may contain instructions but will not be as detailed and directive as JOI.

MV: Many Vids

A Canadian clip site filled with ethical porn and models from around the world. On it you can buy vids, photosets, custom content, Skype sessions and merchandise from a wide range of models and studios.

MNS: My Naughty Selfies

A UK clip site that operates on tokens. Featuring world wide models that sell vids, photosets, custom content and can sessions.

IWC: I Want Clips

This is an American clip site where models can sell a wide variety of services. Caters more so to Dommes and Domination type content, but you can find a bit of everything on here. They also have a phone sex line associated (but I can’t use it since I am in Australia.

BBW: Big Beautiful Woman

This is a category often used on clip sites and Twitter to describe models. Sometimes I am put into this category, but I think this is an error. I would say I am more curvy than BBW. I wouldn’t want to take anything away from the amazing ladies in this category by trying to insert myself into a category that I don’t belong in.

BBC: Big Black Cock

A self explanatory descriptor of male adult content models or role plays containing simulations.

I hope this has helped decipher some of the acronyms you may see floating around the interwebs when it comes to adult content. Is there an acronym you would like discussed? Put it in the comments below.

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My Favourite Fetishes

What raises the hair on your neck? What covers you in goosebumps? Tell me your fantasies…

Like I have said in a previous blog post, I love making fetish content. It has helped me explore my own preferences and fetishes as well as helping others do the same. I found out things that I now enjoy that I had never had an interest in before, simply because someone asked me about it. Here are my current favourite fetishes…

Ass worship

Obviously my ass is amazing, but I had no idea about ass worship until I started making fetish content. Ass worship is an umbrella term for a number of different kinks associated with asses and bums. From ass cheek spanking, squeezing and oiling, to asshole spreading, sniffing and licking, my posterior can do it all. I love having my ass played with, so the fact others can enjoy it too is win-win.

ASMR

ASMR (autonomous sensory meridian response) is something I have loved and experienced for many years but didn’t realise there was a name for it. It is that tingling sensation you get on the back of your head and neck that moves into your spine in response to certain stimuli. It can be extremely pleasurable for some people, although the stimuli may vary. Whispering in my ear causes the experience for me, whilst others get it with prolonged eye contact, blowing noises with the lips or very gentle physical stimuli. I love making ASMR videos and MP3s as I nail the particular stimuli people want, and I find it soothing too.

Role play

Role play isn’t something I had done alot of before making adult content. Yes, I am actually a little boring in real life. But once the seed of fantasy was sown, I was hooked. From the naughty boss who engages in unsavoury workplace practices, to the horny party guest who gets involved in peeping tom action to the complex role plays I develop for my Ego Destroyer Inc branding, I enjoy creating fantasy worlds for my fans and am always open to new ideas.

Upskirting

At heart, I am a complete flirt who is an expert at tease and denial. And what better tease than upskirting, whether that is in panties, or panty less or whatever surprises I have hiding up my skirt. I love using different skirts too, not just short ones. I can’t imagine anything hotter than standing over someone and showing them what is under my skirt.

Religious / Taboo

I have just started doing more religious/taboo content, I have found that I love pushing those boundaries of what is comfortable. I have developed a character called Sister Rem, who I use to explore religious themes. This draws on my knowledge of religion in order to create complex stories. I have made several taboo open and custom clips which focus on the role of “mummy” which someone could experience in a variety of ways.

What are your favourite fetishes? Is there something you would like to explore? I would love to help you do this… feel free to reach out.

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I am a Horny Bookworm…

Reading is how we upload new software into our heads…

I love reading. Ever since I can remember, I have had my face in a book. Libraries are some of my favourite places, but I also can’t go past a second-hand bookstore. There is something I get out of reading that no other activity can satisfy. The creation of internal worlds via words printed on a page has always seemed magical to me. The power of a book belies its unassuming exterior. The time I mainly read is before bed. I like to get in at least an hour a day. This level of reading for three decades has enabled me to read very fast, and yet still comprehend what I am looking at. Reading is definitely part of my nighttime routine and if I don’t do it, I feel completely out of whack. I read anything and everything, but here are my top five authors at this present time.

Ernest Hemingway

Hemingway is definitely in my top five. I have been in love with his writing since my teens. Yes, he is a misogynist, violently rejecting anything feminine, but his writing actually magnifies his vulnerability and I hear so much emotional pain and longing whenever I read him. It is a bizarre juxtaposition. My favourite books of his are “Fiesta (The Sun Also Rises)” and “The Old Man and The Sea.”

Stephen King

I am a horror fanatic, in movies, TV shows and books, and no one can write the genre better than Stephen King. His harnessing of the scary elements of everyday life is so effortless. The characters he creates, and the relationships between them, come to life so swiftly, that it only takes a couple of pages before I am whisked away. His writing is so well crafted that there are no missteps. My favourites of his are “The Shining” and “Needful Things” (although it kills me to whittle it down to two!).

John Updike

John Updike has such beautifully descriptive prose and painfully vulnerable characters. It is hard to describe his style, but his books always leave me with a feeling of awe at his ability to capture emotion in everyday stories. The way he describes sex is just amazing and incredibly unique. My favourites of his are “The Centaur” and “Men and Women.”

Mo Hayder

I came upon Mo Hayder by chance. I was reading another crime novel and her name was a suggested reading (“If you liked this book, you may also like…”). Her style is thrilling and intense, following incredibly horrific cases her detectives pick up. Her books, which I cannot stop thinking about are “Skin” and “Tokyo.”

Clive Barker

Finally, Clive Barker. An absolute horror mastermind with stories created in a complex and multidimensional world. His “Hellbound Heart” was the basis of the iconic “Hellraiser” franchise but many may not know his haunting and gripping style of story telling. One of the absolute masters of the genre, you must check out his “Books of Blood” including “The Midnight Meat Train.”

I cannot help but mention these authors who have had a lasting impact on me and are well worth the read: JG Ballard, Anais Nin, Gustav Flaubert, Franz Kafka, Albert Camus, Mary Shelley, Ian McEwan, George Orwell, Edgar Allen Poe, Truman Capote and Daphne du Maurier.

Why I Love Making Fetish Content

I didn’t purposely decide to get into making fetish content. It was just a extension of my natural tendencies and preferences. It is something I enjoyed from the outset, even more so once people started asking me to push the boundaries of what I had already explored. Here are five reasons why I enjoy making fetish content.

Helping people explore their fantasies in a safe and non-judgemental way

Once you say you are fetish friendly, you attract people who either have explored their fetishes or are still in the process of working out what they like. I have worked with people in my vanilla life for many years as a trauma counsellor so I have a really good understanding of how to make people comfortable enough to engage in something that may be very confronting. I enjoy creating safe and respectful spaces for people to explore and experience their fantasies.

Learning about human sexuality

Having worked with people in an interpersonal way in my vanilla life, I have seen and heard a lot of things about human behaviour. I am naturally curious, and making fetish content means I am constantly learning about what makes people tick. When I come upon a fetish I am not familiar with, I immerse myself in it so that I can gain an understanding of what someone is looking for on a deeper level. Is it about control? Humiliation? Submission? What is the feeling this person wants to experience?

The creative challenge

Once I work out what the person wants to feel, then the creative challenge begins. How do I create that feeling within the specifications give to the particular fetish? How to make someone feel they are being spat on when viewing a piece of content is a challenge. I also self shoot everything, so I need to be able to make it happen with a one-woman show. Some of this takes place in post-production when editing content, but some things need to be captured in one shot to ensure the feeling created doesn’t get disrupted. As a creative person, I love this kind of challenge, resulting in each project being a discrete piece of work.

Exploring my sexual preferences

By helping other people explore their fetishes, it gives me the opportunity to explore mine. I truly believe that until you try something, you will never really know what you like. I really enjoy taboo role play which I didn’t realise until I made custom content around taboo themes. I knew I enjoyed tease and denial but making fetish content connected me with what it was I liked about it and to what extent I was willing to push it. The other fetish I really enjoy is ASMR, and until l had worked out the name for it and what it meant, I wasn’t able to explore it further.

Diversity in projects

In making fetish content, I never know what I am going to be asked to do. It could be video clips or it could be photos. It could be a long complicated piece or something short and sharp. The script for each is also different and it is a surprise to see what elements people want incorporated into their requests. Negotiating what I will do is part of the excitement.

What fetish would you like to explore? Pegging? Femdom? Feet? Ass worship? Tease and denial? Religious fetish? Don’t be shy. Come and say hi and let’s make something amazing.