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When I first heard about female ejaculation (squirting), I thought it was a performance put on by pornstars and absolutely, completely fake. I thought maybe there was a complicated set up of tubes and liquid off camera that caused the gushes I have seen on film. Or else it was just clever editing to make it look like the female orgasm could potentially be accompanied by extreme wetness. The popularity of squirting vids and squirters made me very sceptical about if it is actually possible, or just a fad that everyone was jumping on to make a quick buck.

Until it happened to me.

I haven’t had a lot of sex toys in my life, and only started amassing my collection a couple of years ago. Prior to that, I had one traditional gold vibrator that was a gift from my ex. Once I started collecting, I really wanted a wand vibrator. It took me a while, but I finally got a rechargeable, multimode 7.5inch beauty from Vinalone. It is a small, purple wand with a super soft silicone outer cover that feels really nice when combined with some lube.

Anyway, I was masturbating with this wand for the first time on my couch and I had been edging for quite a while before I decided I wanted to cum. Just before the orgasm hit, I began to feel a trickle of liquid and completely froze. Now… I don’t get really wet when I am horny. I never have and it isn’t abnormal; some women do get really wet, others don’t. So when I felt this definite discharge of liquid, I thought “could I be a… squirter???”

So I attempted to do it again. And this time I set the video camera up to capture the moment. And that is where my clip “MILF Squirt” comes in. This is my very first squirting clip and you get to the see the action WAY close up and personal. It is really natural looking, nothing outlandisg, just me on my bed masturbating till I squirt all over the place.

The squirting thing is not an exact science. Well, not that I have worked out yet. I can never quite predict when it is going to happen or how. The second time I caught it on film was during “Fucking Mint.” The toy I was playing with was once again my purple vibrating wand. This clip has a super long sensual lead in which probably played a part in me squirting during one of the multiple orgasms I had during this session. There is a part where I get the full leg shaking and shuddering… and something tells me that plays a part in my ability to squirt.

The third time I caught my squirting on film was an absolute doozy. It was the first time I had played with my Womaniser clitoral stimulator and I had serious doubts about this toy’s ability to do anything more than simulate someone blowing gently on my clit. Was I wrong or what… you can see exactly what happened in my clip “Squirt Star.” I had multiple, eyerolling orgasms that were so totally unexpected that you can see the shock on my face. And the squirt that eventuated was a huge amount. Shocked the absolute shit out of me.

How to replicate this? It is a matter of trial and error I think. I have squirted once with a partner, and that was after an intense 2 hour shibari session with an experienced rigger and player. He teased me until I couldn’t take it anymore and he predicted when I was going to squirt. Once again I did, and made a complete mess of the bedroom. You can see the still shots of this session in my photoset “BJ Shibari Queen.”

So where to from here? More playing… more experimenting… more edging… and a shittonne of hydration to try and give you all that money shot. Stay tuned for future flooding…

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The title “Domme” doesn’t sit super easy with me. It is not a role I actively pursue but it is something I have fallen into quite naturally. Female domination is quite the buzz genre at the moment, and I hope that I bring something different to the world of clip making around this style. Here are the top 5 reasons why I enjoy making Femdom clips.

natural dominance

I have a very ostentatious personality and was born dominant. I am physically very strong; I trained horses as a child and adolescent and even started training as a farrier when I was 12. (For those of you who know horses, that is a big deal. The strength required to hold up the hoof of an animal that weighs half a tonne, and the forearm strength required to clip their hooves still blows my mind thinking about it today). I am of German descent, and my family are just naturally straightforward and do what they want, when they want. Therefore, making femdom clips is a very natural thing for me and I actually struggle playing roles where I have to submit. It just is not in my nature. That being said, I have been exploring submission, and in particular shibari practices as a rope bunny. If this perks your interest, check out my photoset on ManyVids called “BJ Shibari Queen.” For only $19.99, you will feel like you are there…

spectrum of dominance

Domination is not the same in every situation. In particular, there is a spectrum that it moves along, not only between different practitioners or session but also within. As with other genres that interest me, domination has a flow or an intensity that requires a unique control to ensure the fantasy remains intact and develops in line with the expectations of those involved. I love making clips where the domination is subtle; for example, my set of “Stepmom” clips within my Ego Destroyer Inc series is more a subtle headfuck in the context of a stepson trying to live with his new super hot stepmom. But I also love making clips where the domination is of sledge hammer to the head intensity where you know what is going on and what your role is immediately. The main clip I am thinking of here is “The Spittoon”. Check it out on ManyVids for only $9.99.

dominance and intelligence

I find intelligent people extremely attractive. A person who can get inside my head is one smart cookie. I pride myself on being able to do that also, in an ethical and responsible manner. I think being able to dominate someone on an intellectual level is a special skill that deserves absolute props. So in making Femdom clips that use intelligence, I feel so accomplished and this contributes to my love of them. I think the way I do this best is through my clips that focus on ASMR. I have done a couple like this and now that I have upgraded my recording system, I will be doing more. One clip that you can view FOR FREE that harnesses this amazing power is “Erotica Mindfuck.” In it, I read a short story by Anais Nin, set to a safe for work clip. Get it on ManyVids right here.

flipping the standard narrative

Femdom is about flipping the standard narrative that we have in porn; that women are submissive with things done to them, as opposed to driving the narrative and actively engaging the audience. I love the way that I can show women being sexy and feminine whilst also bringing my nutcracking, Ego Destroying personality to the fore. Amongst my current clips, I think the one I do the best with this is “The Slap.” It is another sexy Ego Destroyer Inc clip, but I am showing you how you need to slap yourself. Get it on ManyVids for $9.99.

the creatively dominant

When you think of female domination, you typically think of leather clad, stiletto wearing, whip cracking badass in all black. To be honest, that representation does not appeal to me much at all. I like doing things a bit differently, and be very creative in the way that I portray dominance. There is some argument that Dommes cannot be naked as that is giving power to their submissives. In fact, I think it is the opposite. My naked body, untouchable and unattainable is the ultimate demonstration of dominance. I can be standing in front of you, masturbating, and there is not a thing you can do about it except ache and drool. Want to see what I mean? Then check out my clip “The Stepmom Returns.” For $4.99 on ManyVids, I will demonstrate the domination and control that nude sensuality brings.