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Who Is This Person Called Rem Sequence?

So you want to know who Rem Sequence is?

Well, to be honest, I had written a long, wanky piece where I talked about myself in a pretentious and super weird way. You can probably still find a version of it in my early blog posts, if you have the desire to dig right back there in the dark cobwebby bits of my site.

My original plan was to tweak the old version, giving it a little updating. But the more times I read it, the more I hated it and the more uninspired I became. This is when my old friend “procrastination” took over.

So, let’s have another go at this with less wanky language and more real shit and see if we get a bit closer to a more accurate description of who the hell Rem Sequence is?

I have lots of different sides, I am a literal dodecahedron made of human skin. There is only one Rem Sequence and she doesn’t react well to people who say she should change.

I am a lazy painter but I like art. I play many instruments to a almost passable standard. I like writing stuff and posing nude or almost nude (sometimes at the same time). I have spent many hours in university basements arguing the meaning of life. I take photos and like putting many of them together so you are tricked into thinking they moving. I think too much and I probably share too many inappropriate thoughts. I like creating fantasy worlds and taking people away to them so we can spend some time together and smile.

I make dumb stuff and deep stuff. You could find me sucking on a lolly pop in a hoodie or glammed up in stockings and garters pursing my full lips. Perhaps you will see me wearing only a thong and bouncing my fat ass or maybe I am in denim shorts and fishnets talking trash through panda eyes.

My fans come from all different walks of life and they tell me that my point of difference isn’t only my sweet fat ass, but also my intense sensuality and the fact that I am as down to earth as they come.

My favourite thing about being a content creator is the opportunity I have to play lots of different roles and bring to life all kinds of fantasies, from the hot mom who lives next door and wants to smother your face to the imposing warrior queen in charge of your darkest dreamscapes where you kneel and beg at my booted feet.

The main categories I cater to are…

Big Ass Worship | Spreading | Smothering | Facesitting |Humiliation

My 48 inch ass is waiting to be worshipped, admired and obsessed over by anyone who is drawn into it’s gravitational pull. I will spread it, jiggle it, and sit on your face with it. It is quite the amazing piece of hardware and I know exactly how to use it to keep you beggin for more.

Big Feet Worship | Footjobs

I have size 12 feet that are wide with pretty toes that I can flex and curl and stretch in a multitude of ways! I love to tease and please you with my big beautiful feet, whether that is simply showing them off for you or getting you to lick them or showing you how I would play with your cock with them.

Inflatables

If you have ever wanted to see a hot Aussie MILF bouncing around on pool and beach toys, sometimes popping them, sometimes not, then I have quite the stash of clips for you! Always building and expanding my content around this fetish and it is one of my favourite types of content to make.

Spit Fetish | Spitting

I used to think spitting was gross, till I tried it myself. There is something really satisfying about spitting on things. I also love drooling, and my favourite clips to make are those when I drool on dildos. I like to do the harsh spitting as the more sensual dripping of spit.

Although these are my favourite niches, I am always open to trying out new things. The kink/fetish world has so many interesting places to explore!

I worked for many years in the music and arts industry, including as a photographer and videographer. This means that I kinda know what I am doing behind a camera, and being an independent, solo, self shooting creator, this comes in handy.

What else would you like to know about me? I love hearing from my fans and answering questions so don’t hold back!

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When Beachballs Won’t Pop, Bring in the Big Guns

In my last blog post about my adventures into making inflatable content, I explained how with my first clip, I couldn’t make the damn beachball pop. Even though I was convinced that I would be able to do it without the help of anything.

So… What to do?

I went back to my fan, the very first person who approached me to do my first inflatable beachball clip. Completely devastated that I couldn’t get the pop they were looking for with my giant ass alone, I asked them what should I do?

Rem Sequence Ass and Fingers

They said that it would be ok to use my fingers to make holes in the beachball. That if I bounced on it a few times and softened it, I could make the holes even without nails and that would result in a fast pop. For those of you who are new to this fetish, there are definitely different types of popping that people like to see, with a range of toys and with a variety of implements. I did not know this… there is so much to learn when embarking on a new fetish! So this particular fan did not want implements used… they just wanted my fingers to make the holes to pop the beachballs. I was super wary about this. I mean, vinyl beachballs are super tough. My fat ass could not pop them by bouncing up and down on one. How the heck was I going to pop them with my fingers which have joints which are really painful and not particularly strong at the moment?

Rem Sequence Learns The Trick

So my number one vinyl fan says that by bouncing on the ball and focussing my puncturing efforts on the joins of the beachball, I will achieve success. The result will be a rapid pop of the ball and deflation. I set up, wearing my super sexy pink one piece swimsuit, ready to capture the moment on film and much to my surprise… it is true! Given the right amount of pressure in the correct spot with a blunt item (such as my fingers) the vinyl of the beachball will give way. And if you check out my clip “PAWG vs Beachball: The Rematch” you will see what ass and finger force is required to destroy a solid vinyl beachball.

Success was sweet, I have to admit it. And it gave me renewed confidence in creating content in this new fetish area. I can hear you saying “Yes Rem, so that takes care of one of the balls, but didn’t you say you had five to destroy???” You are totally correct. Well the inspirational fire was ignited in me and I had other ideas I wanted to work on.

My number one inflatable fan saw the clip when I finally got the pop I had been aiming for and they were very very happy. So happy in fact that they requested another clip with a special dedication. More on that one next time…

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The Five Must Have Boundaries for Content Creators – Part 2

In the first blog post I wrote on boundaries, I talked about WHY it is so important to have them in these five areas. But what use is a why if you don’t have a HOW? In this follow up blog post, I will talk about how I maintain boundaries in order to stay happy and healthy.

With your TIME

The first thing you need to do when maintaining boundaries is to set them. Time is probably one of the easiest areas to do this in, as it is an objective measurement. For example:

When will you work?
When won’t you work?
When are you available for your customers (how much time)?
When are you not available?
How much interaction are you willing to give to potential customers (how much time)?

Once you have decided on these, don’t be shy about it; make it known. You can do this through your 1:1 interactions with people, embed it into your social media postings or posting on your sites. I am not available after 10pm every night or before 8am in the morning my time and I am pretty vocal about this. At this stage, this works for me. If it changes, I will make it known again. Consider it the opening hours of your business. The thing is, if people know when you are open for business and what to expect from you, then there is no pushback. Why? Because your clients/customers then accept that that is how you operate. You don’t have to be snarky about it, just matter of fact “I don’t respond after 10pm, I will get back to this in the morning.” Treat it like any other business would.

With who YOU are

We all have lives that are separate from our content creator personas, and although there may be some crossover, it is important to keep some distance between the two (for the sake of your mental health). This is difficult though, as we develop relationships with our fans, customers and clients, it is normal that we may start to share more about our lives than we may have at the beginning. Also, the way this industry is now, people expect a certain amount of personal sharing and connection with their favourite content creators. I maintain this boundary by treating Rem Sequence as a job, both in practice but also in my headspace. My fans and clients do not know my real name; I ask that my friends and people who know me in real life call me by my real name. I am not a big sharer anyway, so I find it easy not to share personal details in public. I think this is useful to think about in multiple ways; the content of your photos (keeping personal things out of them), when you talk about places you visit, things you enjoy. Although these can build relationships with your fanbase, they can also erode the boundary between YOU and your work. How much are you willing to share? What things are you going to keep just for you? When I am pressed about certain details, I have a few strategies that I use. Sometimes, I will make something up; other times I will just distract the person. Remember, you are in charge of what and how much you share of YOU. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

With your CASH

As with time, how we maintain boundaries when it comes to our money is a bit easier as it is something objective. Your payment methods, your rates and your pricing are all things you can decide upon and rattle off very easily when asked. How to maintain that boundary? My best piece of advice is to stick to your guns, even if someone gets pushy. Lots of content creators get worried about losing business or what others will think about them if they budge around their cash. If someone really wants to have a piece of you, they will work with you and not waste your time by arguing with you over a payment method or a matter of dollars. Let these people walk. Don’t even bother arguing, just politely excuse yourself from the conversation. You are costing yourself MORE money by justifying why you run your business in a certain way to people that are not invested in what you are doing.

With your PERSONA

When it comes to boundaries around my persona, I have found that the number one reason that I may budge on them is because of a lack of confidence in myself. If I feel like maybe I should explore area xyz because someone has asked me repeatedly about it YET it is something I am not comfortable with, then the reason probably is because of a loss of faith in what I am creating. The way I manage this is by surrounding myself with supportive and encouraging people who are knowledgeable in the business and can pull me up by the bootstraps when I need it. Instead of questioning and exploring my boundaries with customers, clients and random peers, I will go back to this group of supporters and check in with them. Nine times out of ten they tell me that my initial reasoning was sound and not to worry about what anybody else says. I think when it comes to our personas, having confidence in ourselves and commitment to the path we are taking is absolutely key. And the way to maintain this is through the people we surround ourselves with.

With your ENERGY

In my first post on boundaries, I talked a bit about how to maintain these around your energy. It is definitely easy to get sucked into working 24/7 as a content creator and it is just not healthy. In my opinion, the best thing you can do in this regard is to treat it as if it were a vanilla job where you are accountable to someone for the level of energy you put in. Develop a work schedule and stick to it. Incorporate break times/days into this schedule and make sure you future proof yourself for if you are in the unfortunate position to have to take time off. The number one thing is to work out how much you can do in the time you have, and know that some other creators may work more than you and some less, but that doesn’t make you any better or worse than anyone else. And if people make you feel bad about that… well, that says a lot more about them than it does you. Working with people can be incredibly draining, and you must develop boundaries around this and maintain them in order to remain consistent and survive in this industry. Once again, having a strong support network who can encourage and support you in your decisions around this is vital.

I hope this piece helped to address questions you may have had about how to maintain boundaries. However, in writing this, I realised one of the key things to success is developing supportive and encouraging relationships with other content creators and people in our industry. In my next piece, I will talk about finding your tribe and some guidelines I have found useful when building and maintaining my support network.

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What Makes A Great Solo Masturbation Clip?

One of my most popular clip categories is solo masturbation clips. Not only do most of my clips fall into this category, but they are the clips which have consistent 5 star ratings. Some people may say it isn’t difficult to make a clip of yourself masturbating, and I agree. But to make a clip which is great and that has people coming back for more? Well, that is a different story! What makes a great solo masturbation clip? Here is what I consider to be the top 5 items that a content creator must nail…

LIGHTING

This one seems like a no brainer but it is something a lot of people forget. The action needs to be seen, and that requires a significant amount of lighting being blasted at the subject. Overhead lights and lamps are not going to cut it here. In my earlier clips, I used a lot less lighting, and you can definitely see the difference in quality once I started using specialist photographic lighting. In my clip “Cum On You” you can see the difference good lighting makes. All the details are crisp and clear, ready for the enjoyment of the viewer.

expression

One excellent piece of feedback I received from my customers was about including my face in my clips. I have made clips in the past that just focused on the bits that were having the most fun. But my customers said to me “we want to see your face!” And it makes sense. So much of what we are feeling comes across in our facial expressions, and you can’t really see if someone is having a good time if you are looking just at their vagina. The hottest clips I have watched are where I can see the person’s face and I can see that they are enjoying themselves. One of my clips where you can see this very well is “Squirt Star.” Here, you get to see me play with my clitoral stimulator for the first time and see how it absolutely blows my mind!

sound

Depending on the type of solo masturbation clip, you need to be prepared to play with the sound. I like to add my own music to my clips, making sure it doesn’t overwhelm the sounds coming from me at the crucial moments. Most of the time I will have music over the first half of the clip and then reduce the music down over the end. But for some clips, that is way too distracting, and just making sure you capture the natural sounds of the orgasm is a priority. Most video recording devices have microphones that are good enough to capture sound, but just be mindful of the soundtrack as you are recording. There is nothing worse than watching a clip and being distracted by some weird noise that has nothing to do with the action. One of my clips that I think turned out really well soundwise is “Wet and Wild”, an outdoor masturbation clip where I get very wet, very fast.

length

I am of the personal opinion that solo masturbation clips do not need to be epic sagas of ridiculous length. The main reason I think this is because of the attention span of the average horny person who is watching. I know that clips that are any longer than 5 minutes lose me and that 3 minutes of intensity is the perfect length to keep me interested in the action. You always have 30 seconds or a minute to play with at either end, but if you can nail 3 minutes of red hot action in the middle, in my opinion, you are onto a winner. When I first started making clips, I found it really hard to get them any longer than 60 seconds! (Yes, I am able to bring myself to orgasm ridiculously fast!) But as I learnt to slow things down and stretch it out, I realised that my customers didn’t really want super long clips, because like me, they came hard and fast. If you would like to see an example of my early clips where I cum hard and fast, check out “New Cummer.” It is also free to view, but watch with caution… it may turn you into a Rem Sequence fan like it has so many others!

authenticity

The viewers of solo masturbation clips fundamentally want to see something real. The other areas I have talked about, like sound and expression, contribute to a genuine experience. But the fact is that if you don’t like making these types of clips, and you are not comfortable performing like this on camera, it will come across to the viewer and it is a surefire way to kill the experience for them. If you don’t like making them, and therefore cannot bring that authenticity to it, then my advice is… don’t. To be successful in adult content creation, you don’t need to nail this category. There are many other people who are extremely successful and have not got there by fucking themselves on camera. And that is totally fine… because like I say all the time, the community of creators and fans is so diverse that there will always be someone who is into what YOU like to do, and that passion is contagious. If you want to check out some 100% authentic Rem Sequence, I suggest you have a look at “Fucking Mint.” It is one of my favourite clips of all time, and I am sure you will get that sense from viewing it.

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