I regularly get asked what are the things that turn me on, and trust me, the list is ever changing. I am also a sapiophile so the things that really get me going are those that stimulate my mind more than anything. This is part one of my top turn ons and it is no surprise that most of them involve getting intimate with me on a deeper level than anything physical…
Forearms and Hands
The first thing I look at when it comes to men is their hands and forearms. I literally cannot help myself. Large, thick hands and muscly, veined forearms are a major turn on for me. I guess it is because I like men that can grab and hold me and that requires some significant hand and forearm strength. In my opinion, there is nothing worse than small, fine hands and slender forearms on a man. It is an instant turnoff for me. I don’t mind hands that are rough or look like they have done some hard work in their time (the rougher the better, if I am going to be perfectly honest). My first boyfriend when I was 16 was a mechanic and the things that stick in my mind are his scent and his hands. (Sidenote: Even now, when I smell that same aftershave, male body smell, my heart starts to race.) His hands were big and tough and always had oil engrained in them, no matter how much he washed them. They were perfect.
Sensual Daddy Doms
I am attracted to strong, confident men, however aggressive alpha male attitudes are a serious turn off. My flavour of dominant men runs more to those with a caring, sensual “Daddy” vibe. Being choked and slapped doesn’t do it for me; instead having a big strong man with a deep rough voice sit me on their lap and tell me I am a good girl makes me throb. I enjoyed being cared for emotionally and physically by these types of men and it doesn’t take much to draw me in. Absolutely, 100%, sensual daddy doms are my kryptonite. I have yet to find a man who fits this bill for me in the long term, so for now, I am content with admiring them from afar.
Men Worshipping Me
When men acknowledge me for the walking Goddess that I am, it is a major turn on. Not only does it show me that they are discerning and able to appreciate a strong, independent woman, but it is a demonstration of how secure they are in themselves and that they have a resilient ego. Nothing dries my vagina up quicker than insecure men who are blind to their position in the world. Men who worship me with their body, minds and wallets make me soaking wet and are on a fast track to my heart.
Teasing
I love teasing but I also love being teased. Tease is a major part of foreplay for me, which I believe should extend for several hours (or preferably days) before any actual sex act takes place. I love being teased with words but also touch. I like clever wordplay and combining this with a teasing element will capture my attention very fast. I literally roll my eyes when I get messages saying such boring things “you are so beautiful I wanna eat your ass.” Seriously. Level up, my dudes. When it comes to touch, I like teasing that borders on the obscene; whispering in my ear, intentional touching almost on my most sensitive parts. Teasing men turns me on to no end. I love pushing that boundary till I can see a man cannot take it anymore; when they get flustered and flushed and forget how to speak. It is adorably sexy.
Performing on Camera
I have always been a bit of an exhibitionist; I have always loved performing and being the centre of attention. Performing on camera and filming myself is a huge turn on. I regularly masturbate to my own clips (I know, I am a bit of a deviant). I love when I get requests for clips and when I know guys are jerking off to my content, that makes me throb in the most delightful way. When I first started making porn, I didn’t realise how much I would enjoy it. Now I am hooked and I cannot imagine not being involved in this industry as a performer.
In the first part of this series, I have talked about the big ticket items that turn me on, and I understand they are mostly psychological emotional things that I am drawn to. In part two of this, I will talk about the physical stuff that gets me going… that is, what another person can do to me to really drive me crazy.
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