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Tight Clothing and Binding

I have always been drawn to tight clothing, whether it be tights, shirts, or pants. I also love corsetry as I love that feeling of pressure on my body. I was dissuaded from wearing tight clothing when I was young as my family was very conservation and was (I felt) slightly embarassed by their curvy daughter when the rest of my female siblings were built like baby giraffes. Items of clothing that are tight and hug my figure look amazing and it turns me on to see my gorgeous curves. But there is something about the formfitting items that give me pleasure through other senses than my eyes. I find the restriction not only comforting but very pleasurable.

ASMR

It was only very recently that I realised that ASMR is a real turn on of mine. ASMR is Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response, a tingling sensation that starts at the scalp and runs down the base of your neck and into your spine that is accompanied by a low grade euphoria. It is set off by different stimuli (sounds, touch etc) and I am learning what sets mine off. Whispering is definitely one of the triggers, but if that whispering is right in my ear (so the stimulus of your breath on the inside of my ear) it just shoots it up another notch. I also love gently ripping and tearing sounds, like fruit being torn up or broken into pieces. It makes me feel very hot and bothered in my panty region!

Biting

If you have read anything about me, you would know that I have a very active oral fixation… I enjoy putting things in my mouth and find the sensation of sucking very soothing. But I also like to bite onto things. Not chewing but the act of biting onto something (ball gag, skin) and holding it between my teeth. I also really enjoy being bitten. Totally animalistic but there you go! I do have one ball gag and only have one video featuring it which is only available for my paid members on my members sites. I should probably make another one again just to show you how hot biting makes me.

Vinyl

Another recent turn on that I have discovered is vinyl and in particular, inflatable toys like beachballs and other blow up pool floats. I have always got really excited by bouncy castles and bouncing on things, but it was only when I was approached by some avid vinyl lovers that I incorporated it into my clip making and then discovered I actually really enjoy it. Like I said I enjoy the bouncing sensation, but I also like the friction of the vinyl against my very sensitive bits. I was always scared that my big fat ass would bust the balls apart but they are surprisingly sturdy so there is nothing to worry about with that! I am looking forward to exploring this one more and seeing where it takes me.

Making Out and Passionate Kissing

As I said before, I have a very sensitive oral fixation, so it is no wonder that making out and passionate kissing really turns me on. I actually think that I could just cum from someone just kissing me, that is how hot it makes me. I would love to make clips with someone that is just kissing because it would combine two things which are major turn ons; performing on camera and passionate kissing. Submit your application to co-star with me by emailing remsequence@gmail.com

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I regularly get asked what are the things that turn me on, and trust me, the list is ever changing. I am also a sapiophile so the things that really get me going are those that stimulate my mind more than anything. This is part one of my top turn ons and it is no surprise that most of them involve getting intimate with me on a deeper level than anything physical…

Forearms and Hands

The first thing I look at when it comes to men is their hands and forearms. I literally cannot help myself. Large, thick hands and muscly, veined forearms are a major turn on for me. I guess it is because I like men that can grab and hold me and that requires some significant hand and forearm strength. In my opinion, there is nothing worse than small, fine hands and slender forearms on a man. It is an instant turnoff for me. I don’t mind hands that are rough or look like they have done some hard work in their time (the rougher the better, if I am going to be perfectly honest). My first boyfriend when I was 16 was a mechanic and the things that stick in my mind are his scent and his hands. (Sidenote: Even now, when I smell that same aftershave, male body smell, my heart starts to race.) His hands were big and tough and always had oil engrained in them, no matter how much he washed them. They were perfect.

Sensual Daddy Doms

I am attracted to strong, confident men, however aggressive alpha male attitudes are a serious turn off. My flavour of dominant men runs more to those with a caring, sensual “Daddy” vibe. Being choked and slapped doesn’t do it for me; instead having a big strong man with a deep rough voice sit me on their lap and tell me I am a good girl makes me throb. I enjoyed being cared for emotionally and physically by these types of men and it doesn’t take much to draw me in. Absolutely, 100%, sensual daddy doms are my kryptonite. I have yet to find a man who fits this bill for me in the long term, so for now, I am content with admiring them from afar.

Men Worshipping Me

When men acknowledge me for the walking Goddess that I am, it is a major turn on. Not only does it show me that they are discerning and able to appreciate a strong, independent woman, but it is a demonstration of how secure they are in themselves and that they have a resilient ego. Nothing dries my vagina up quicker than insecure men who are blind to their position in the world. Men who worship me with their body, minds and wallets make me soaking wet and are on a fast track to my heart.

Teasing

I love teasing but I also love being teased. Tease is a major part of foreplay for me, which I believe should extend for several hours (or preferably days) before any actual sex act takes place. I love being teased with words but also touch. I like clever wordplay and combining this with a teasing element will capture my attention very fast. I literally roll my eyes when I get messages saying such boring things “you are so beautiful I wanna eat your ass.” Seriously. Level up, my dudes. When it comes to touch, I like teasing that borders on the obscene; whispering in my ear, intentional touching almost on my most sensitive parts. Teasing men turns me on to no end. I love pushing that boundary till I can see a man cannot take it anymore; when they get flustered and flushed and forget how to speak. It is adorably sexy.

Performing on Camera

I have always been a bit of an exhibitionist; I have always loved performing and being the centre of attention. Performing on camera and filming myself is a huge turn on. I regularly masturbate to my own clips (I know, I am a bit of a deviant). I love when I get requests for clips and when I know guys are jerking off to my content, that makes me throb in the most delightful way. When I first started making porn, I didn’t realise how much I would enjoy it. Now I am hooked and I cannot imagine not being involved in this industry as a performer.

In the first part of this series, I have talked about the big ticket items that turn me on, and I understand they are mostly psychological emotional things that I am drawn to. In part two of this, I will talk about the physical stuff that gets me going… that is, what another person can do to me to really drive me crazy.