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My Favourite Fetishes

Back in the day when I was a young and innocent young woman, I thought I was totally vanilla. Thing is I assumed that everyone else’s sex life and fantasy world’s were just as kinky and weird as my own. Wrong, Rem, wrong. Therefore, when I started making clips, I made lots of extremely tame content. My early library is really just a tonne of solo masturbation vids with various fairly tame toys. But as I got a little more experienced, I realised that the fetishes I enjoyed the most could be captured on film, and that there are a whole bunch of filthy deviants just like myself who would enjoy it. Here are my top 5 favourite fetishes, and as always, remember, these are subject to change.

Stepmom Fantasy

Of course Rem Sequence enjoys exploring taboo subject matter, but my favourite fetish is Stepmom Fantasy. It is that age old fantasy, where your dad marries a super hot, younger babe who becomes your stepmom who could also very easily be your girlfriend. Awkward. I love exploring this fantasy in different ways, to the gentle, nurturing stepmom, to the evil, arrogant, humiliating bitch who knows you want her but will continually tease you till you can bear it no more. My favourite of the clips I have created around this fetish has to be my original clip “Ego Destroyer Inc – The Stepmom”. Basically, I call you into the kitchen for a special heart to heart, which quickly turns into something very different. Get it on ManyVids for $4.99.

Foot Fetish

I have big pretty size 12 feet that I love to tease people with. I also love shoes, stockings, socks… anything that goes on my legs and feet really. So it is no surprise that I have been drawn to making foot fetish clips. In my of my clips you will find that my feet always have a way of making some sort of appearance. I have recently decided that instead of having them photobomb my other clips, they really deserve a stage of their own. I think my most recent clip in this category “PAWG with Big Pretty Feet” gives the best view of my feet to date. Pick it up on ManyVids for only $9.99.

Spanking

I am a very naughty girl. Spanking is one of my favourite fetishes as I love spanking others AND being spanked myself. And the perfect place for me to be spanked? On my very ample and juicy bottom. When someone else spanks me, it is the anticipation of the spank that I love the most; I never know when or how hard it is going to be. When spanking others, I love the feel and tease of it. I am totally a hedonistic sensory seeker in that I love experiencing different textures and sensations, often one after another. My clip “Strip Spank Suck” combines a few of the sensations I enjoy; gentle squeezing, spanking and sucking. To see how much I enjoy it, get it on ManyVids for only $4.99.

Upskirting

A theme through all my fetishes is teasing, and upskirting is no exception. I find something super hot about having someone look up my skirt, with my consent. It is a tease and a surprise each time to see what underwear I am wearing, or if I am wearing any at all! One of my favourite clips that I have made in the fetish category is “Tartan Upskirt Slut.” I think it turned out super sexy and cute; the angle, plus the skirt plus the cheeky pink thong work together to make it a must see. Check it out on ManyVids for only $9.99.

Spit Fetish

We have come to my final favourite fetish and it will probably surprise you to know that it is spit fetish. That is, I enjoy spitting on or into people (not the other way around). It is the humiliation of spit and the intimacy that I find so arousing. I was introduced to the spit fetish by a custom clip client. I had never done any spit fetish before and they requested a clip that was basically a POV of me spitting on them and verbally abusing them. After doing this custom clip, I remade it for general release. It is called “Ego Destroyer Inc – The Spittoon” and is one of my top clips on multiple platforms. You can get it on ManyVids for $9.99.

What are some of your favourite fetishes? Do we share any in common? Is there a fantasy you would like to see me bring to life?

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My Turn Ons: Part 1

I regularly get asked what are the things that turn me on, and trust me, the list is ever changing. I am also a sapiophile so the things that really get me going are those that stimulate my mind more than anything. This is part one of my top turn ons and it is no surprise that most of them involve getting intimate with me on a deeper level than anything physical…

Forearms and Hands

The first thing I look at when it comes to men is their hands and forearms. I literally cannot help myself. Large, thick hands and muscly, veined forearms are a major turn on for me. I guess it is because I like men that can grab and hold me and that requires some significant hand and forearm strength. In my opinion, there is nothing worse than small, fine hands and slender forearms on a man. It is an instant turnoff for me. I don’t mind hands that are rough or look like they have done some hard work in their time (the rougher the better, if I am going to be perfectly honest). My first boyfriend when I was 16 was a mechanic and the things that stick in my mind are his scent and his hands. (Sidenote: Even now, when I smell that same aftershave, male body smell, my heart starts to race.) His hands were big and tough and always had oil engrained in them, no matter how much he washed them. They were perfect.

Sensual Daddy Doms

I am attracted to strong, confident men, however aggressive alpha male attitudes are a serious turn off. My flavour of dominant men runs more to those with a caring, sensual “Daddy” vibe. Being choked and slapped doesn’t do it for me; instead having a big strong man with a deep rough voice sit me on their lap and tell me I am a good girl makes me throb. I enjoyed being cared for emotionally and physically by these types of men and it doesn’t take much to draw me in. Absolutely, 100%, sensual daddy doms are my kryptonite. I have yet to find a man who fits this bill for me in the long term, so for now, I am content with admiring them from afar.

Men Worshipping Me

When men acknowledge me for the walking Goddess that I am, it is a major turn on. Not only does it show me that they are discerning and able to appreciate a strong, independent woman, but it is a demonstration of how secure they are in themselves and that they have a resilient ego. Nothing dries my vagina up quicker than insecure men who are blind to their position in the world. Men who worship me with their body, minds and wallets make me soaking wet and are on a fast track to my heart.

Teasing

I love teasing but I also love being teased. Tease is a major part of foreplay for me, which I believe should extend for several hours (or preferably days) before any actual sex act takes place. I love being teased with words but also touch. I like clever wordplay and combining this with a teasing element will capture my attention very fast. I literally roll my eyes when I get messages saying such boring things “you are so beautiful I wanna eat your ass.” Seriously. Level up, my dudes. When it comes to touch, I like teasing that borders on the obscene; whispering in my ear, intentional touching almost on my most sensitive parts. Teasing men turns me on to no end. I love pushing that boundary till I can see a man cannot take it anymore; when they get flustered and flushed and forget how to speak. It is adorably sexy.

Performing on Camera

I have always been a bit of an exhibitionist; I have always loved performing and being the centre of attention. Performing on camera and filming myself is a huge turn on. I regularly masturbate to my own clips (I know, I am a bit of a deviant). I love when I get requests for clips and when I know guys are jerking off to my content, that makes me throb in the most delightful way. When I first started making porn, I didn’t realise how much I would enjoy it. Now I am hooked and I cannot imagine not being involved in this industry as a performer.

In the first part of this series, I have talked about the big ticket items that turn me on, and I understand they are mostly psychological emotional things that I am drawn to. In part two of this, I will talk about the physical stuff that gets me going… that is, what another person can do to me to really drive me crazy.

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My First Time… Having Sex Outdoors

Living in Australia, I have access to some amazing natural environments. From the bush, to the beach, there are beautiful places literally minutes from where I live. Obviously, getting some kinky outdoor time is a bit of a right of passage in this country. But when was the first time I fucked outdoors? Well, that is quite the story…

Although I had made out, petted and played with people outdoors, I had never actually had sex, naked under the sun or moon, until I met Paul. Paul was a freaky motherfucker, and I couldn’t get enough of him. So at the tender age of 18, I was at his beck and call, and I thought any suggestion he made was brilliant. The thing that drove us outdoors was that I was living with some nosey and gossipy friends and he was living with… his wife. We would sit in my car and play with each other but it got to the stage where the confines of the car were causing some significant problems, so we had to look elsewhere.

Paul knew of a little spot that was at the top of hill, very easily accessible by road but very private also. So we would meet there, walk into the bush a little way where there was a clearing. Paul would set up a tarp and blankets where it was super comfortable to get naked for a few hours. We did this regularly for five years and so got very wise to where and when to meet there and set up our position so that we didn’t get busted or get bitten by bull ants that dominate the area!

Since then, my exhibitionism has increased dramatically, so I have fucked in a wide variety of outdoor places including the Esplanade at one of my local beaches and one of the parks very central to my city. Unfortunately, I haven’t yet had a chance to film any of these escapades with other people, so you will just have to make do with my own solo footage from my outdoor play sessions.

In “MILF Sunbathe and Dildo Play”, you get a full body exploration in my very open backyard, stripping out of my little bikini to fully nude. Lots of shots of my amazing ass too, close up so you don’t miss a thing. And all of this before I get out my dildo and get wet and creamy very fast.

In “Garden Slut”, I play with my vibrator on my couch in my backyard, trying not to make too much noise when I orgasm. You get to see my big natural pierced tits out and you can hear my neighbours who are very close by and are busy outside doing outdoorsy type stuff.

“Wet and Wild” is for those who are gagging to see me get really wet. I play with my garden hose in my bikini in a semi naughty way, before hopping in the pool and using the nozzle to get off. I had no idea that water could be so stimulating.

Those who know me well know I train hard and in “Outdoor Nude Workout” you get to see it first hand… with me dressed in nothing but knee high socks and sneakers. Watch as I squat over your face so you get extreme closeups of my big juicy ass and perfect porn pussy and dangle my tits as I do push ups on top of you. Then I sit and finger myself, and my tight little ass. This is one of my favourite clips, as I feel it came out looking so good! I still get horny watching it.

Finally, who doesn’t love a “Wet T-Shirt Comp”? In a white singlet, I conduct my very own competition by smothering my big natural soft boobs with water under my outdoor shower. Once again, my backyard sets the scene, and I have no doubt my neighbours have an inkling about what goes on at Rem’s place.

Has this whetted your appetite for outdoor action? Check out these clips and you will not be disappointed. I hope to add some more to my library very soon.

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Fan Questions #2 – The Sex Work Edition

My first edition of fan questions really focussed on getting to know me on a bit of a vanilla level. However, my fans also gave me a swag of questions related to sex work, the adult industry, content creation and some cheeky questions about my sex life. So I decided to put them into this second edition. Thank you for the questions and enjoy…

1. What made you decide to go into the porn industry?

I have been in and around the adult industry since my late teens. From stripping to XXX shows and full-service sex work, although I never worked in it, I always had connections to people who did. I always had an interest, but never had an opportunity to actually work in the industry. I have always been very creative, working in the music industry for many years, but also dabbled in photography, videography and visual arts. This included painting and drawing nudes and still lifes as my primary subject. One day it was put to me by a friend, “why don’t you take your own nudes?” Good question. I guess I always thought that that was something you couldn’t do yourself, that you needed someone to be involved with a production company or connected with some sort of agency. When I started researching it, I realised indie porn was a thing and saw the wide variety of adult content creators out there and decided I could probably do it to. It draws on all my talent and interests in the creative field so I took the plunge and gave myself 6 months to make a go of it. Two years later, here we are…

2. With your experience, do you think that the porn industry has a higher barrier for entry now than 2 years ago?

I think that it does. The internet is an extraordinary place for people in the porn industry to start building businesses (and empires) and it was much easier for people such as myself (not mainstream or particularly attractive to be production companies) to make content and build something from relatively nothing. I started making content a short while before FOSTA/SESTA came in, and began imposing its controls on adult content on the internet. Before then, there was a relatively free rein on people not only posting such content but also talking about it. That has been a huge shift. Because if you are someone who is new to the industry, the way that you learn about it is by doing your research, talking with other people, exploring through your search bar. With the passing of this legislation, it has driven a lot of people underground, or changed the way people have to talk about things so that it is not so explicit. This isn’t just an issue for people wanting to get into the adult industry, this is an issue of safety also. If you cannot talk about risk and safety openly, then that risk greatly increases, and likewise, safety decreases. Social media has also been a major platform for adult content creators and pornstars. With these sites becoming so big now, and wanting to expand more, this means they have to trim off the elements which are undesirable to bigger corporations being invested in helping them with their goals. The first to go? Adult content. And this means that people starting out in the industry now need more resources, information and guidance outside of social media than they did previously. In two years I have seen a huge shift, that some are responding better to than others.

2. Would you ever consider Full Service sex work?

Absolutely. And it is something I have been thinking about for quite a while. When I first started thinking about full-service work, I didn’t think it was something I could do, particularly because I am not very comfortable around people, and have made a concerted effort to move away from work that involves me being in close proximity to people. But then I thought about how they would be interactions that are quite controlled and agreed upon, which makes them much more comfortable interactions than I normally have with people! However, it is something that I couldn’t do where I currently live in. I live in a state which has once again denied the passing of legislation for full-service sex work. This would mean I would have to travel interstate to provide services lawfully, and that presents its own inherent risks, as well as being a logistical nightmare. There are also all different ways of providing services; in an establishment, as an independent. I need to explore this all more and see what works best for me.

3. Do you love sex?

I enjoy being sensual and intimate with people. I am fundamentally a hedonist so I am focused on seeking pleasure in many different ways. I enjoy the sensory experience of sex, more so than than the climax at the end. I enjoy a slow, sustained build up before any act. That is probably why clip making appeals to me so much; there is a lot that goes into the finished product that you see. Clip making starts with developing an idea, pulling together all the things needed, running a basic script through my head several times, getting ready to film, filming, editing. It takes foreplay to a whole other level. So do I love sex? Probably not as much as I love the stuff that is peripheral to it. I think there is a myth that because you are a sex worker, you must love sex. Is the same thing asked of baristas and coffee? Probably not.

5. You are very vocal about OnlyFans. What is the deal?

I have a real issue about practices and businesses that I think are unfair, unjust and exploitative. Especially when those businesses and practices profit from people who are already vulnerable and at risk. From my experience and research, OnlyFans ticks all these boxes. I have been gathering evidence of their dodgy practices for a while now and have collated them in a story highlight on my Instagram. It all started when I sought clarification from them about what content is permissible on their site. I got a super wishy washy response that basically said nudity is ok as long as it isn’t too “extreme.” When pressed further, they referred me back to their terms of service which clearly say that content that “is offensive” is not allowed on their site. Clearly, porn can fall into this subjective category! So what is the problem with this? Well, basically, they can profit from models and content creators bringing traffic to their site with content that they have stated is not allowed. At any time, they can pull the plug, referring back to these terms of service. And this is what I have heard of happening multiple times, with OnlyFans withholding payments from models. Among other horror stories, I have heard of content being stolen and sold with OnlyFans doing nothing about it and models losing a tonne of money through other dodgy practices of theirs. The fact they have now raised their minimum payout to $500 and if models aren’t posting regularly, their money will be cut… I think it is outrageous. Especially when there are so many other sites operating ethically and pro-sexwork. I personally don’t think they will last much longer, because there is only so long you can operate in this manner before it catches up with you.

6. What are your favourite types of clips to make?

This is a difficult question to answer, as I only make things I enjoy! But I have found a real love of striptease clips (and that is why I release a free one every month for my fans). I love the sensuality of striptease, and how it can be made fun, or super serious, just depending on what mood you want to convey. I make my own music and I also find the video editing of these clips to be the most interesting for me.

7. I know you are single. Are you looking for a partner? How does working in porn affect this?

I was previously but now I am not actively looking for a partner. I have found that this industry has really changed the way I view relationships and men. I deal with men on a daily basis and although I love them, I see them at their absolute worst. The reality is that a lot of men still have a real problem with strong, independent women, even if they say otherwise. Because I won’t tolerate any kind of nonsense, it means that men I would have given a lot of energy to won’t get a look in with me anymore. I have also developed a preference for polyamory, and I am not sure that one person can satisfy all my needs for emotional and physical needs like I thought they could before. It would have to be someone pretty unique to do that.

8. You make mainly solo content. I know I would like to see you working with others. What gives?

I enjoy making solo content as I have complete control over what I do. Working with others in this particular industry is easier said than done. Lots of people (read men) want to make adult content, but it is not as fun as it sounds and not everyone can do it. Quality male talent is definitely sorely lacking, from my perspective. For co-stars, I look for people who are currently working in the adult industry and/or have made adult content. I also look for people that fit my brand and my look; I am serious about the content I produce, and I would not invite someone to participate just for convenience. Finally, I look for people who are committed and professional. I have met lots of people who are very keen to work with me, but they never pan out because they are not in this business for the long haul, and if you want to be successful in it, you need to understand that it is going to be a long grind and you have to be consistent. Lots of people burn their bridges before they have begun, and I simply don’t have time for that. That being said, my DMs are always open to discussing collaboration with anyone, whether that be co-starring or me behind the camera.

9. Favourite sex position?

My favourite position is definitely on top. I like controlling the action, and for me, being on top means I get to dictate pretty much everything that is going on. Can you tell I am a Scorpio?

10. South Australia has yet again rejected the decriminalisation of sex work. What are your thoughts on this?

Disappointed by completely unsurprised. This legislation has had a long history in South Australia of being put forward and not getting through our legislative process. As a political science major with a focus in parliamentary systems, I have a very good understanding of how the system works and I knew it would never get through, like other controversial pieces such as bills concerning assisted suicide. South Australia, despite its quite progressive leadership in the 1960s and 1970s, is actually extremely conservative, and its parliament has its foundations in a number of Christian groups in the community. While the parties in power have affiliations and politically profitable connections with these groups, there is no way that progressive pieces will get through our already outdated and unresponsive bi-cameral system.

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My First Time… Squirting

When I first heard about female ejaculation (squirting), I thought it was a performance put on by pornstars and absolutely, completely fake. I thought maybe there was a complicated set up of tubes and liquid off camera that caused the gushes I have seen on film. Or else it was just clever editing to make it look like the female orgasm could potentially be accompanied by extreme wetness. The popularity of squirting vids and squirters made me very sceptical about if it is actually possible, or just a fad that everyone was jumping on to make a quick buck.

Until it happened to me.

I haven’t had a lot of sex toys in my life, and only started amassing my collection a couple of years ago. Prior to that, I had one traditional gold vibrator that was a gift from my ex. Once I started collecting, I really wanted a wand vibrator. It took me a while, but I finally got a rechargeable, multimode 7.5inch beauty from Vinalone. It is a small, purple wand with a super soft silicone outer cover that feels really nice when combined with some lube.

Anyway, I was masturbating with this wand for the first time on my couch and I had been edging for quite a while before I decided I wanted to cum. Just before the orgasm hit, I began to feel a trickle of liquid and completely froze. Now… I don’t get really wet when I am horny. I never have and it isn’t abnormal; some women do get really wet, others don’t. So when I felt this definite discharge of liquid, I thought “could I be a… squirter???”

So I attempted to do it again. And this time I set the video camera up to capture the moment. And that is where my clip “MILF Squirt” comes in. This is my very first squirting clip and you get to the see the action WAY close up and personal. It is really natural looking, nothing outlandisg, just me on my bed masturbating till I squirt all over the place.

The squirting thing is not an exact science. Well, not that I have worked out yet. I can never quite predict when it is going to happen or how. The second time I caught it on film was during “Fucking Mint.” The toy I was playing with was once again my purple vibrating wand. This clip has a super long sensual lead in which probably played a part in me squirting during one of the multiple orgasms I had during this session. There is a part where I get the full leg shaking and shuddering… and something tells me that plays a part in my ability to squirt.

The third time I caught my squirting on film was an absolute doozy. It was the first time I had played with my Womaniser clitoral stimulator and I had serious doubts about this toy’s ability to do anything more than simulate someone blowing gently on my clit. Was I wrong or what… you can see exactly what happened in my clip “Squirt Star.” I had multiple, eyerolling orgasms that were so totally unexpected that you can see the shock on my face. And the squirt that eventuated was a huge amount. Shocked the absolute shit out of me.

How to replicate this? It is a matter of trial and error I think. I have squirted once with a partner, and that was after an intense 2 hour shibari session with an experienced rigger and player. He teased me until I couldn’t take it anymore and he predicted when I was going to squirt. Once again I did, and made a complete mess of the bedroom. You can see the still shots of this session in my photoset “BJ Shibari Queen.”

So where to from here? More playing… more experimenting… more edging… and a shittonne of hydration to try and give you all that money shot. Stay tuned for future flooding…

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Welcome Back to our Regular Programming…

Well… almost. Let me bring you up to speed…

The last two months have pretty much been a wipeout for me. I have been very ill with a chronic medical condition which actually landed me in hospital for two weeks, pondering some potentially very serious consequences for me. After an extremely intense round of treatment (including cortizone and chemotherapy), I am back home recovering. I am at a point where I can actually write a blog post now, which was unthinkable a couple of weeks ago when I was managing the side effects of the heavy medications I am on now.

Although things are now back under control, this episode means I have a new management plan and need to review what I am doing to avoid my condition being exacerbated further. The goal is not to end up back in hospital having organs removed. So I am slowly easing back into it, which is very difficult for my personality type; balls to wall 24/7.

At the moment, I am doing a few administrative tasks that I have left undone for too long. I am working through uploading my 200 clips to my Clips 4 Sale and PornHub sites, and I am re-editing old content and making things look pretty while I am building my strength back up. Fun fact: I squatted down the other day and couldn’t get back up. The strength in my thick thighs and butt disappeared along with 10kgs (22 pounds) of muscle… a side effect of huge doses of cortizone.

I have a long list of content to make once I have got myself back together, including plenty of big booty clips where you get to worship my amazing ass, some very interesting femdom clips including spit fetish and an area I am branching into, foot fetish. I have size 12 feet and my current clips have been very popular (check out “Size 12 Foot Worship” for a sample). I am also doing some more ASMR and meditation clips for those who enjoy listening to my irresistable Australian accent, so stay tuned for those also. I have been gifted a new video camera, so all the new stuff will be in beautifully clear 4K. I am really excited to start working with it!

I have done a little bit of editing on some old footage while I have been sorting out the thousands of images and hundreds of hours of footage in my archive. I have made a FREE little retro throwback clip of your favourite PAWG MILF when she was a newbie to this whole porn game. Click here to have a look…

Finally, I would like to say thank you to all my fans who have been so beautifully supportive and kind during this period of extreme health issues. Just receiving messages saying not to stress about being inactive and to work on getting well has been very comforting. Other people have sent gifts and taken on tasks for me that quite frankly I cannot do at the moment. I appreciate it all.

So yes, back to regular programming. Almost. Stay tuned for my blogs to be hitting here on a regular basis… I have some very interesting subjects to talk to you about. You won’t want to miss it.

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The World According To Rem Sequence #11

It is that time of the week again! Are you ready for another episode of my vlog? In this week’s episode I talk about my gorgeous new play toy, sissification and why making porn is a shittonne harder than it looks. Get it at the usual outlets…. PornHub and ManyVids.

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My Sex Toy Wishlist

In previous blogs, I have talked about my favourite sex toys that I currently own. As an adult content creator, I obviously have a pretty big and interesting collection of toys. I also love to masturbate, which is why I do actually have a wishlist of toys I want to get. Here is a small sample from my current list. Christmas is coming… perhaps Santa will agree I have been very nice this year and line my stocking with these beauties…

The Tentacle

Most people know that I love glass dildos. If you are a fan of my clips, you will have seen the lovely glass one I currently own in a number of clips, including “Cum on You.” But I saw this glass dildo, sold by ChokeMeHarder.Com and fell in love. I love the ocean and octopus in particular and this one is just so beautiful. The colour, texture and size make me feel so warm inside.

demon dick

I said I like the glass octopus dildo because of the colour and texture. Same goes for the Demon Dick from Bad Dragon. That curved tip would hit my g-spot just perfectly and the ripples and spiky bits along the shaft would feel amazing too. I love my standard big dildos that mimic human cocks (see “Dildo Riding 101” and “Dildo Riding 2.0” for reference) but I love a good demon fucking fantasy too. Would you like to see me fuck a demon?

the rockstar – fatboy

If you have watched a mere fraction of my clips, you will know how much I love a good dildo that I can stick onto a surface and ride the fuck out of. “Dildo Riding 101” and “Dildo Riding 2.0” are just two that showcase my love of dildos. I don’t have a preference for size or shape, I love them all. My friend Jo from Play Naughty With Jo has some amazing dildos that I haven’t seen anywhere before, and I want them all! Including this fat little dong, aptly name “FatBoy”. Jo has also given me a time limited promo code “REM1119” that will get you 15% off her online store till the 13th of December 2019. Go say hi and tell her Rem sent you…

the crystal curve

I have heard lots of people waxing lyrical about crystal dildos, and being a glass dildo loving fiend, I am more than mildly intrigued about using a crystal one (see “Filthy Butt Plug & Pussy Play” for yet another example of my love for all things cold and hard). Anyway, this one is from Chakrubs and has the thickness and bulbus end, both of which are an absolute must for me. I would love to have a go of it and see what the fuss is about.

vibrating ring

The truth is… I don’t wear rings. I grew up training horses, so a ring on your finger was an absolute invitation for having said finger amputated on a gate, fence post or whatever was nearby. However, I saw this little beauty from Unboundbabes and thought it is something I could really get with. I don’t need an absolutely high powered vibrator every single time I masturbate (check out my clip “Pinky Cum” where I use a one speed mini vibrator for an unexpectedly strong climax) and this ring would be PERFECT for an off road experience. And beautiful to look at too.

inflatable sex ball

If you have been paying attention, you would know that I love riding stuff. I mean, my long term favourite toy is my pink rocker, as seen in “Rem’s Fave Toy.” So when I saw this sex ball, I was immediately intrigued. Yes, I am concerned about your favourite big booty from Australia crushing this thing as I bounce on it, but hey, I am willing to give it at least gallop around the paddock. This one is from Wild Secrets who I get alot of my sex toys from. They are an Australian company, with great value toys delivered exactly when I need them.

the cowgirl

Now to my absolute dream toy, the cowgirl sex machine. Seriously decadent and premium but jesus. I would love to see how this bad boy handle the treatment this PAWG ass will give it. Once again, you know how much I love riding, this baby would be the ultimate adventure. If you have a spare couple of $K, consider treating your queen to this very special toy.

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Fan Questions #1

I asked my fans to hit me with their questions and here is what I got. Enjoy the safe version of “Fan Questions” (the naughty version will be coming soon).

1. top 5 songs to take selfies to

I generally don’t play music when taking selfies, but, hang on… all my clips are self shot so TECHNICALLY they are selfies! I have the most eclectic music taste, so brace yourself for the songs I love to play in the background while I am making content:

Triumph – The Wu-Tang Clan featuring Cappadonna
Room A Thousand Years Wide – Soundgarden
Curmudgeon – Nirvana
No Pity For A Coward – Suicide Silence
Turn It Up – Busta Rhymes

Don’t judge me… I was a musician in a past life so I have a very very broad and unusual combination of musical loves, but these 5 tracks pretty much cover the kind of stuff I enjoy listening to and that get me inspired to make stuff.

2. what do you consider to be your best real life learning experience over the past year?

Good question. I have had alot of great experiences this year that have helped me grow, but the one that had the most impact involved my vanilla work life. I have been striving to progress in the organisation I currently work in and won a coveted position in a very high profile project. I was extremely excited by the potential gains from this employment, but it turned into a literal nightmare. I was reporting to a person who was a narcissist of the highest order, who absolutely slammed my experience, skills, knowledge and confidence on a daily basis. When the three month contract came to an end, I was incredibly relieved (I actually had a countdown calendar for the last month in the 7th layer of hell). Not only was I relieved, but it actually played havoc with my mental health for months afterwards, and the team and boss I went back to were incredibly gentle and caring as I recovered. What was the lesson I learnt? There is nothing that compares to having control in what you do and being surrounded by people who are supporting and encouraging. This experience made me realise that I actually don’t want to progress in the corporate world. I am much happier riding along in my position and building my business to a point where I can quit my job and make adult content full time. In my vanilla job, I will always be under someones thumb, and you can never guarantee that that person will use their power for good instead of malice.

3. do you have a dream job?

Fitting that this question should follow the one above. My “dream job” has changed so much over my life and I expect it will continue to change as I get older and more cynical. There are specific things which give me great joy and that I have done in one form or another as work (making art, playing music, helping people, academia, animals and nature). I think the main thing is that I want a job where I don’t have to worry about making enough money to cover the things I want to do and that gives me the control in when/where/how I work. That is the real dream. I am currently enjoying my vanilla work as well as developing my adult content creation business. If I could solely do adult industry work and drop the other, I would have no hesitation in doing so. But, I must admit I like the comfort of a paycheck that I can rely upon. So until I am at a stage where I don’t have to worry about making enough to make ends meet, I will juggle the two.

4. what are you most afraid of?

This is going to sound very strange but you asked so I shall tell you. I am extremely afraid of small dead animals, particularly mice. I think this particular phobia came about as I grew up on a horse stud and we had a year when we had a mouse plague. If you have never had the honour of being present during such an event, honestly, count yourself lucky. We would open bags of horsefeed and have 10 – 20 mice jump out. Our sheds were full of them, and there were times when the ground was covered like a living, moving carpet. It was useless setting traditional traps so we rigged up some things to capture and kill as many mice as possible overnight. One of these things was a 44 gallon drum of water, which enticed the mice to climb on a tightrope type thing and then fall into the water and drown. We would kill 70 – 100 mice like this per night. Finding dead mice where you least expected them also happened regularly. I am pretty sure that this is the source of this phobia.

5. tell the story about the bedframe…

Once upon a time, I was dating a dude when I came upon the info that he was dating multiple women in town and across the globe, unbeknowst to any of them. I sorted out my commitments for the day, then went down to his sharehouse and knocked on the door till I was let in by his housemate. I removed all the items that I wanted to keep from the room that I had fully furnished before removing the mattress that I had purchased for him and smashing his bed. When he came to ask me what I was doing, I told him that if if he ever tried to speak to me again, I would slit his throat. When he began panhandling on the internet for a new bed, citing his crazy “friend” as the reason for his sleeping on the floor with no bedding, the Rem Sequence shitshow swung into action and shut his ass down, to the point where he deleted all his social media accounts. I will not be lied to, have my time wasted or made to look like a fool. He did all three, and got off relatively lightly. I bruised the bone in my ankle quite badly, where it took several weeks before I could walk properly again. I say that is a small price to pay to put a loser in his place. It is an example of how restrained I can be, in that his face did not end up in pieces on the floor.

6. what are some things you do to take care of yourself, when you have “you” time?

Quite honestly, this is not something I do enough of! I always put it off because I am “too busy”, but I am finding more and more that if I don’t stop and do something nice for myself, I end up feeling very dark about the world. I practice taekwondo regularly which is a good self care activity. I makes me stop and be very very present. Because if I am not, I end up getting kicked in the face. The other thing I am getting back into right now is colouring in. I used to love it, and I would have a tonne of different books, sheets and pencils/textas/crayons to colour in with. I still have alot of supplies, and the other day when I needed some mental space, I decided to drag my stuff out and I loved it!

7. what is your favourite comfort book? what do you read when you need to de-stress?

Reading is one thing I do every single day to relax before bed. I read for at least an hour a day and I guarantee that is where my skill of speed reading and my infinite store of irrelevant facts comes from. I have written another blog posts on my favourite authors which you should check out for a bit more detail on what I enjoy reading. But the books I love and that I read over and over and over again because they are so enjoyable and relaxing are mostly horror novels; “The Shining” by Stephen King, “Dracula” by Bram Stoker, “Frankenstein” by Mary Shelley are a few I read every year. But there are also some obscure books that I love and are in annual rotation; “Perfume” by Patrick Suskind, “Crash” by JG Ballard and “In Cold Blood” by Truman Capote are amazing pieces of literature that I come back to all the time.

8. which one of your tattoos is your favourite?

I would have to say my favourite tattoo is my owl on my inner right forearm. He is just so beautifully drawn with amazing detail. He is an otherwordly owl, sitting on the skull of another bird. I was inspired to get him in that spot after having a dream about my tattooist tattooing him in that position. When you do some research on owls, you will find they are an extremely powerful symbol of intuition, and are also considered to be the gatekeepers of the other realm. It was a pretty memorable dream for me, and obviously something my subconscious was forcing me to acknowledge. So that back story coupled with how beautiful the design turned out makes it my favourite tattoos. But I do have a soft spot for birds of prey, so the eagle on my chest may just become my new favourite. We will see once that piece is done…

9. who would you like to work with and why?

There are so many creative people I would love to work with in the adult industry. Not just models, but photographers, videographers and other production companies. In the US, there is my number 1 crush @thelwoolf, Michael Ramos of Broken Dreams studios and the guys of Developredeye Photography. My arty weirdness is drawn moreso to creatives in Europe including Sascha Billig, Dollhouse Photography, Peacemaker Art, Gunther Florennes and Dassy DX. I am on a mission to get to Europe in 2020 so that I can work with a bunch of these people and more. Visit my gofund me as part of my ManyVids services page to contribute and help me get there!

10. Why do men?

There is too much in the answer for this question to do it justice in a single paragraph of a blog post. It deserves an entire post dedicated to explaining why I continue to enjoy the company of men when they are so problematic in so many ways. Stay tuned for that one.

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Big Booty Problems – Environmental Factors

I have written a previous blog post about the problems I encounter having a big booty and particular items of clothing. However, big booty problems come in many forms, and this post will focus on the physical things in the world I have to negotiate when I take all the junk in my trunk out to play. Here are my top 5 Big Booty Problems – Environmental Factors.

Seats

Aussie Aussie Aussie

I have a 40 inch hip circumference. Which requires Australian size 16 pants/bottoms/panties to fit it. That is absurd. Bigger than most other people. Therefore things that are designed for the general public just don’t fit me. Take seats, for example. Sometimes it is an aggressively tight fit, especially when there are arms involved in the furniture. Whilst getting into the seat is an issue, getting out is a major tactical manoeuvre. Generally not pretty because having this big beautiful booty crammed into a small space is not comfortable and it take a while to work the kinks out. I leave the vicinity with serious cramps and stiffness. And don’t get me started on stools… They are simply not big enough for my whole ass to fit on. I start spilling off the side like a cupcake baking in the oven and rising up over the sides.

walking past things

Naughty Hotel Guest

Have you ever carried a whole bunch of things and had to walk past furniture? You know how you have to be really careful that your bags or boxes or whatever don’t sweep everything off a table or buffet? Well… welcome to my life. Except I am carrying my bags/boxes on my person, all day, every day. I have knocked things off of tables before, and going into shops is a bit of a nightmare at times, because if I turn around without due care, I am taking a whole bunch of items with me. And the excuse of “well, my ass is extraordinarily big” just doesn’t cut it with shop owners who have just lost $100 of glassware. Because it is my butt that pokes out the back, on top of my very long legs, it has the extraordinary ability to get on top of tables and sweep them clean well before I am aware that anything is in danger.

walking through things

Aussie Baker

Walking through things can be problematic also. Think doorways. My jeans, pockets and skirts get caught on door handles and door furniture ALOT. That is because my width is greater than most of these things are meant to accommodate. I got to be careful not to swing around midway through the door, otherwise it is all over, red rover. You would be surprised to know how often my hips, butt and thighs get bruised and scratched up just from running into fixed things like doors, poles, tables. I am pretty good at gauging what size the opening can accommodate, but other times, especially if I am in a rush, I just bang into everything. Also, have a think about me trying to get through aisles in theatres. The booty or crotch conundrum doesn’t apply here; you will either get my ass in your face or making contact with the back of your head.

crowds

Morning MILF

Speaking of my butt making contact with people, the ultimate environmental factor to negotiate is crowds. I like my butt being touched but not by every freaking random person at a concert or shopping centre. I am constantly apologising to people who getting inadvertantly bumped by huge ass bump. Whether it is doing the sideways crawl through a crowd where I wipe a whole row of people with both cheeks, or a stop suddenly and the person behind me rams me despite leaving plenty of space between. I feel like I need a reversing alarm for when I need to back up, just to alert people that this wide load is on the move and anything could happen.

buying clothes

By Request

I have talked about this before in a previous post, but buying clothing that fits properly is a legitimate issue. Doesn’t matter if it is jeans, pants, underwear, skirts or tights, things just do not fit. I have a 40 inch hip circumference but a 35 inch waist, plus long ass legs and thick thighs. You do the math. It is a major problem. Things may fit my butt into them but then they are super loose around the waist. Or the legs are long enough but it is loose everywhere else. Once I have found something that fits, the next issue is keeping it all in shape. My ass S T R E T C H E S clothes out, till the material is ghostly thin and rips at the slightest booty pop. I go through alot of underwear because it is hard keeping everything fitting nice. No wonder I like thongs and not wearing pants so much…

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